me and my boyfriend officially broke up last night and i was too afraid to tell him when we were together that i think im pregnant but i dont want to tell him now and make him think im only saying this to keep him with me cuz we were talking last weekend about what we would do if i got pregnant and he told me he would stay with me. but how can i really believe this if he left me because of a rumor that i screwed another guy
2007-01-16 01:25:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he left you because of a rumour that you slept with somebody else, his first thought will be that the baby isn't his, either. If you only "think" you're pregnant, you'd better wait to find out for sure, then tell him straight out.
An added benefit of this is that it will give him some time to cool off and maybe start to miss you...
2007-01-16 01:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out for sure that you are or not. If you are than tell him. Let him know that the rumors weren't true(that is if they weren't) and tell him you will gladly give him a paternity test when the baby is born. Tell him you are not looking to make him stay with you but you do want him in your baby's life.
A relationship based on a baby is not healthy although if you decide to get back together I hope that it works out.
2007-01-16 01:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by puggylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're sure you are pregnant, then tell him. Hearing a girl is pregnant takes a toll on a guy just as it does on the girl who is pregnant. If he denies it, that will only last for so long.
2007-01-16 01:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you are or aren't pregnant for sure, then you must tell him straight out or move away and stay away from him. You just have to make sure that he has made his mind up about wether he is staying or not, if not you have to decide what to do with the baby, if he says yes try and see a soliciter. (sorry about the spelling i broke my wrist and tring to use few letters) xx
2007-01-16 02:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by little_teapot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are already broken up you should wait until you know for sure. Take a pregnancy test~if it comes up positive and you know the baby is definitely his tell him~if it comes up negative then you don't even have to worry about it. If there is a possibility that this baby is not his then you need to tell him this too. Good luck!
2007-01-16 01:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you say anything to anyone about "thinking" you are pregnant, go to the doctor to know for sure. The sooner you know for sure the better for you and others involved. If you are, you need to start prenatal care early in pregnancy to have a healthy baby.
2007-01-16 01:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him anything until you no for sure you're pregnant. It will just freak him out and if you're not pregnant he's going to think you tried to trick him into being with you.
2007-01-16 01:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by love2shop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if you are pregnant (go to the doctor) .. if you are .. call him, say I am pregnant... and it may be yours. If he doesn't believe it.. he will in about 5 months.. when it is apparent.
2007-01-16 01:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, Ralph! Dearie....I think I'm knocked up! Just wanted you to know.
Crap! It is his child as well as it is yours! He should know, tell the dumb bastard. If he can't handle it then that's the way it is. But you should make every effort to involve him in your childs life for the sake of your child as he/she grows up. One day he/she will ask where is my Daddy and why doesn't he live with me?
2007-01-16 01:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Ole Charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you know for sure, don't spring this on him right now. If you are, then you might have to prove to him it is his child ,since he already believes you did somebody else.
2007-01-16 01:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋