Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

Hi. I am a 35 years old bachelor. From the beginning I am very much physically attracted only to older women [45 years and above] but not to younger women. I dreamed of marrying an MBBS Doctor and I wanted to discuss my problem with her only. As a last alternative I have come here to find an answer for my problem? I am extremely very very very shy. I can never discuss this problem with anybody else. I doubt if the right person will read about my problem. Soon I have to get married. I am very much worried. My parents and relatives don't know about my problem. By God's grace I am working in a good and respectable job. I think that I am having a problem and I cannot tell anybody about it. So, I drink Beer alone to forget my problem. I think Beer is equal to happiness. Some people say that we cannot buy happiness. I can buy Beer and drink Beer. That is happiness for me. I have drank many bottles of Beer. Beer has caused a minor problem to me which I will discuss only with my beloved wife.

2007-01-16 01:05:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is asked by my freind as she feels shy to browse the web

2007-01-16 01:05:03 · 24 answers · asked by looking forward for peace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and I have been together for 5 years and I was wondering what ppl think is better...
Getting engaged and having a party then start planning the wedding? Or just start planning the wedding, set the date and bring it on???

2007-01-16 01:04:05 · 7 answers · asked by Skiri 1 in Weddings

I grew up in a very mmixed area and went to culturally diverse highs chools and colleges and graduate schools. I have dated ( not slept with) many men. I find that ehite men are the most controlling and sexist., african men are the most domineering, latino men make me laugh the most and don't take too much seriously, black men are affectionate and like to tease and asian men make the bext dinner dates because they have something interesting to talk about. OK. Start killing me but aren't most stereotypes based in fact? I was married to a white man and then a black one so this does not affect loving someone or not.

2007-01-16 01:03:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, that with your lover you're shy to talk about sex...with someone who doesn't mean much to u, things go easier...

2007-01-16 01:03:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been fighting with bf just aittle latly becuase he is so busy and has no time to talk with me anymore and i have been asking him constantly about why he dont talk to me much anymore well last night he had called me after he got done working and he was over at his friends house and he friend ends up being a girl and there where three girls there to his one and i could he them all flirting with him and bugging him while he was on the phone with me and i confronted him about when he got home and he told me all he did was go over there and play cards and watch tv and he make the excuse up that he has lots of friends that are girls and when i asked him about why he went over there and he said to hang out and i told said that i felt kinda ditched that he would go over there when he promised me that he would talk to me and he didnt so we argued about it and i dont know what to do

2007-01-16 01:03:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 01:02:53 · 18 answers · asked by chinna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

NOTHING TO DEAL WITH SEX.

2007-01-16 01:02:41 · 5 answers · asked by chickie 2 in Singles & Dating

kavya_kannada@yahoo.co.in

2007-01-16 01:01:01 · 16 answers · asked by kavya b 1 in Friends

Well, here goes my story. I'm a guy in mid-twenties, met this girl, met this girl bout 1 year ago, she's 7 years older than me and we kinda "clicked" in a way. I do love her a lot but there's things I really find hard to accept. One is the fact I just finished Uni last year while she dropped out of high-school at 17 and never went back, doing quite a low job all her life. Also I find it hard to accept her past, some suicidal behaviour I've recently found out about mostly and I'm really heart-broken. On one side, I wish I could close my eyes to the parts that disturb me about her and just love her completely and make her happy for the rest of our lives, on the other I'm wondering if its right, if maybe I'll regret it marrying her and then it will be harder for both of us. She reaaaaaly loves me a lot and shows me that every day, a very caring and loving person. What is your opinion ? What must I do. Lately, I've been really praying for guidance, hope God shows me the right thing to do..

2007-01-16 01:00:48 · 15 answers · asked by Ella F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend fell out with me because i said some things that i shouldn't have said. We have been best mates for about 2 yrs and we were always there for each other. I have said sorry and that i was in the wrong but he still doesn't want to know. Can anyone please help.

2007-01-16 00:59:23 · 12 answers · asked by SCO77 1 in Friends

Dead or alive?

2007-01-16 00:59:21 · 10 answers · asked by fatherf.lotski 5 in Friends

my boyfriend broke up w/ me 4 my best friend . but i still love him & hate her what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-16 00:58:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

That you later found out was CUKOO FOR COCO PUFFS!

2007-01-16 00:57:38 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

He says that he loves me, and I believe him. I love him too. But every time he talks about his ex-girlfriend, I can feel that he still has feelings for her.

2007-01-16 00:57:21 · 4 answers · asked by L.A.H. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 00:56:10 · 13 answers · asked by shmoopy15 1 in Singles & Dating

I read so many mails about girls not finding the right nice guy, are there any guys that try to find desperately any nice girls , or is that just a girl thing that is going on right now???
thanks for your opinion

2007-01-16 00:55:01 · 9 answers · asked by m_faery 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 00:54:20 · 23 answers · asked by Blonde & Sharp 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents ve spend a lot of money for my studies and they wanted me to be with them.but my cousin whom i love wanted me to be with him[he wana go abroad] what should i do.both of them are important for me.

2007-01-16 00:53:57 · 13 answers · asked by ashi 1 in Family

For example the richer the worser

2007-01-16 00:53:32 · 24 answers · asked by Rhonda B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is back of a guy(he is really cute) who is all ready having a girl friend . so i said her to drop the view as he is the guy of some other gal and if he would know the truth that it is not friend ship that she is having on him but love then he may avoid to be ur friend(as we all r friends right now) and u will loose his friend ship.but she says that im just trying to change her way cauz im jelous of her cauz once i said that i like that guy. but i sware im not jealous of her im only trying to change her way cauz if he leave her friend ship she could not bear that as i know haw much she loves him. but still he is in love with some other gal.
and my friend is trying to put quarells between him and his gf thats also a reason why i want to change her mind.THATS WHY IM SAYING THAT HE WOULD LEAVE HER FRIEND SHIP IF HE KNOW THE TRUTH.
i tryed to speak to her bout this but she is not listening to me.

2007-01-16 00:53:07 · 5 answers · asked by alekhya 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 00:52:57 · 9 answers · asked by tinkypinkles 3 in Singles & Dating

why are married males so much dominating on their wives?

2007-01-16 00:52:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 00:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by jlhs1981 1 in Singles & Dating

Heres the scinario
If you spend alot of time with someone
They ask you over there house all the time
There always finding out what im upto.
They hold your hand and hug upto you when ur watching a film
She always says bout being her best friend and that.
She always goes on about wanting a gay best friend (im NOT GAY)
Interested to know who im texting
Texts me and rings me alot
What would you say they want? Friendship or more?

2007-01-16 00:51:08 · 10 answers · asked by grezzor 2 in Singles & Dating

Heres the scinario
If you spend alot of time with someone
They ask you over there house all the time
There always finding out what im upto.
They hold your hand and hug upto you when ur watching a film
She always says bout being her best friend and that.
She always goes on about wanting a gay best friend (im NOT GAY)
Interested to know who im texting
Texts me and rings me alot
What would you say they want? Friendship or more?

2007-01-16 00:51:05 · 7 answers · asked by grezzor 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend suffers from mild anxiety attacks and doesn't get out much. I invited her along on a holiday with my boyfriend and I and some of our friends as I thought it would do her good to get away, have some fun and meet some new people. She agreed and has accepted my invitation. The holiday is now booked but my friend keeps hinting about me and her "doing our own thing" and warning me that she might have attacks and will need me. I have no intention of leaving her alone, but I also want to spend time with my boyfriend and other friends. I have been looking forward to the holiday but am now worried that I have made a mistake by inviting my friend. How can I make my intentions clear without hurting her feelings?

2007-01-16 00:51:00 · 7 answers · asked by L x 1 in Friends

2007-01-16 00:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 00:49:34 · 16 answers · asked by jenikanc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all her undies are not appealing to me and its affecting my sex life with her.

2007-01-16 00:47:10 · 4 answers · asked by nas r 1 in Singles & Dating