my boyfriend broke up w/ me 4 my best friend . but i still love him & hate her what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 00:58:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
girl she was not yur friend 2 begin wit cuz if he ditched u 4 her then u know they was talkin before time so wut u need to do is take em both to maury!!!!! j/k girl *** em both u do better w/out em cuz u don need lyers n backstabbers in yur life!!!!!! any more help i'm here!!!!!!!!!! love erika
2007-01-16 01:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over him. It also sounds like you are displacing some of your anger onto your ex-best friend. She is getting all of your fury but you would take him back - there is something very wrong with that picture. BOTH of them betrayed you and there is nothing for it but to hurt, to heal, and to never do this to a friend of yours.
What your friend did was very wrong and you have a right to be angry. However, be careful that you don't become one of those women who always takes the side of the man and is always against the other women. Female friendships need to be nurtured as well and friends will support you through many a heartache on your way to true love. I have friends who learned this much earlier than I did and were happier for it.
Hang in there.
2007-01-16 01:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by C C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im shocked a so called best friend would do that to you. Obviously she wasn't a friend at all. Neither was your boyfriend. If they are going to do this to you, I'd say forget them.
I went through a similar situation years ago, but honestly, don't try to get him back. You will only get hurt in the long run. Try to move on and keep busy until you get over him. I know it will be hard, but hes not worth it. I hope you get through this and good luck
2007-01-16 01:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by elena_398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how long you guys were going out and how serious your relationship was.
If you love him, it sounds like it must have been over a year.
What does your friend have to say for herself? How did it all happen? Did she chase him or other way around.
I bet she chased him, in which case she is massively insecure and frankly a serious nutcase. I bet she's the really manipulative type. You don't need friends like her in your life.
Same thing happened to my sister.
If he chased her, then it's a different story. He's just a ******** and probably never actually loved you, but was using you to get to her.
Either way, one of them is messed up and not worth knowing and the other one is gutless and you're probably better off without them as well.
2007-01-16 01:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by cgibbinsuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends come and go but true friendship may be hard to find. Try to keep a good relationship to your friend, the guy will probably be ditched anyway within a couple of months (I mean, he is a moron, right?) and who is the sorry one then?
2007-01-16 01:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Distressed homeowner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you really want him back?? If he broke up with you for your bf, he's probably not worth the effort. You should focus on starting over with someone more deserving of you. Sorry you lost your bff though.
2016-03-28 23:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new best friend first. Then look for a new boyfriend.
2007-01-16 01:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that was your bestfriend because if she was she would never try to talk to your boyfriend if i was your bestfriend i would never did that to you she probably being talk to your boyfriend but you probably never know because she was your bestfriend i'm sorry to hear that but i think you should find you someone else who is going to love you for you before you get hurt again trying to stay with that fool good luck girl.
2007-01-16 01:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a fool ruin your life. Move on and don't make so much out of boyfriend crap. No guy is ready for total commitment when they are young. Enjoy LIFE and find out who YOU are before serious relationships.
2007-01-16 01:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go pray that GOD may make them suffer as much as u suffer now .. dont go for anything crazy .. be refind dont look back its behind ur door now dont open it again but know something that one of them will knock on ur door DONOT OPEN .. they doesnt deserve it .. who make it yesterday will remake it again today .. the guy is an asshole and the girl is selfish .. its not worth it to keep one of them in ur life.. wjay happened is for ur best ..sure ..GOD wants it to happen
2007-01-16 01:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by ReDWiNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a coinsidence that happened to me to, but i was the best friend. Yeah i would just get over it, don't let it bother you. And don't waste your time trying getting him back, cause it doesn't work! yeah my ex best friend really hates me to, but its OK! OVER IT!! I LOVE MY HUSBAND!
2007-01-16 01:03:05 · answer #11 · answered by star-e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋