What do you do if your guy is still stuck on his ex-girlfriend?

Question

He says that he loves me, and I believe him. I love him too. But every time he talks about his ex-girlfriend, I can feel that he still has feelings for her.

Answer 1

Dear friend, there will always be memories, it is one characteristic of human beings that even he cannto control much. So your boyfriend's memories are bound to come back. All you can do is to make best se of it, Listen to him carefully and find out where his ex GF lacked,, and give all that to him in ways that will make him realize that you are much better than her, and then u see, how he starts talking less and less about all that,, and thatday, you contact me and let me know, i'll be so happy :-) have a nice time

Answer 2

First of all why is he talking about his x gf anyhow?? I would be straight up with him and ask just let him know that his past is his past and there is no room for his x if u and him are going to be together. The last thing u want to do is stick with a guy who is still stuck on his x, so make sure he is over her and ready for a relationship with u and only u. Good luck

Answer 3

Dear Niceguy00.
Your saying sounds like an angel's guidelines or world peace's whatever something totally inaccurate for advising.
But not that bad idea though.



For me,
I will be MAD if my bf keep talking about his ex.

If I were you, I will say to him "Call me when you 110% over her."

And give him some time. If he still the same, man... it is difficult but I want to say to you that find another guy who can be stable with current relationship.

If he loves you, he shouldn't be like this. It is not love.

Isn't it painful when you hear about his ex?
It hurts me before...
( from my experience)

Answer 4

You definitely have to talk about it with him, don't you think so? And that he has to concentrate on THIS relationship. You and him.

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