this is asked by my freind as she feels shy to browse the web
2007-01-16 01:05:03 · 24 answers · asked by looking forward for peace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHY DON'T YOU TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND ABOUT THIS?
2007-01-16 19:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but i am disgusted you need to ask, my partner also works abroad and you need to remember why your together in the first place, did you marry because you had a good sex life? or did you marry because you love him for ALL his good and bad points, sex, personality ect ? my guess is the latter. IF you are questioning your fidelty then i suggest you question your WHOLE relationship!! imo i am particularly qualified to give my opinion on this matter, as i am in the same situation, i would suggest you look at the better aspects of your relationship, ie; you probably appreciate each other more than most couples, you probably have a better sex life than most couples and you probably argue less than most couples. and all this is becuse he is away earning a living and values the time he does get to spend with you. Just remember its not just you who is suffering he is too. I don't know your full situation but i am 22 and have 3 children to look after on my own whilst my other half is away, and yes its difficult, lonely and stressful, but i just remeber i love him very much and miss him greatly and i know he feels the same too. we have a brilliant relationship when we are together and most of all i know he's doing it for us. hths
2007-01-16 01:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by derbyjen 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well.. meet up with someone nice, who can keep a secret.. someone who can let you go when u no longer want it. or you may try 98 of the 99 further going to 50 of 48 and 49..get it? All thatabove i can assure you. SMS or call if interested !!!! Take care and have a nice day !!!!
2007-01-17 21:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Niceguy004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know to which community u belong,
peace as asked by u will not come from only sex, there are so many other things in life, sex is a part of life, firstly try to be commited to ur marriage vows, i dont think, ur husband working abroad as he does not like, to live a good life only, if he checks it even bymistakenly, he looses his interest on life too.. dear friend donot come into temporary pleasure ways, try to understand the life goal.
if i say any thing wrong, please forgive me.
thank u... and be loyal to marriage mean
2007-01-16 17:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by mark la 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says that through Christ we should bring discipline and control to our thought-life. Our thoughts should not control us, but we should rule over our thoughts. "Cast down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ" (2 Cor. 10:5). Sexual fantasising is a symptom of lust and is not pleasing to God. It stimulates and promotes sexual anxiety, which can lead to impure behaviour and fornication. Get your mind out of the gutter and discipline your thoughts on good, and holy things.
"But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matt. 5:28). (Read Mark 7:21-23, Eph. 4:8.)
I think you need to read more and control yourself while your husband is away. Remember your vows.
2007-01-16 07:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by bbluckylove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to feel the way she feels ~ desire to fulfill sexual needs. To a certain extent, boredom can do that to her. If she's busy with a 100 other things in her life, it's relatively easier to get over that urge.
However, one way is to talk to someone that you are comfortable with. Maybe use some times or chat with someone about your sexual desires. Feel free to IM/write to me if you'd like to talk.
2007-01-16 01:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Was she perhaps hinting that she wanted some girl/girl action with you? I heard that in places where women live together in harems, they pleasure each other often.
2007-01-16 01:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know any person can get frustrated in this case. u should get indulge in some work. do u have a kid? be jolly with them, play with them. love ur kids,& do some work, & when ur hubby comes, enjoy with him to the fullest, make aim in ur life, be happy & not frustrated
2007-01-16 01:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
u can join with one more married man whose wife lives in villiage,he will satisfy you.
take care he does not bleck mail you.
never show him your actual identity
make casual relation & change it, the moment you feel insecured from person.
2007-01-16 23:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I "webcam" with a lot women in the same situation. I keeps them entertained, and they keep "comming" back too.
OOOH I am a tart !!
2007-01-16 01:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you suck. people asking this type of question always say that it is on somones behalf. get the help of your neighbour. ask your husband also to satisfy himself with some one whom he likes. can you immagine this.no. than keep shut. wait for him. you will enjoy the wait for him. your love for him will inrease.dont deceive him.
2007-01-16 18:29:46 · answer #11 · answered by Muruks 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋