Why does a man say he loves you but cheats on you.And then when he gets caught cheating he cries and begs for your forgiveness cuz "he just cant live without you".But then after thats done and you forgive him.......he does it again?What goes through mens mind and why do they hurt the people they love?
2007-01-16 01:31:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men (boys) like him think with their "tiny weeny" and know your weakness. You need to let go - it will hurt but you will be happy and find that special someone.
Love and Hate are such strong words and many people abuse them.
Hope all is well and start the New Year off right by forgeting the old and finding the new!!
You can do it - and have fun doing it!!!
2007-01-16 09:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are letting him!!! Get the toxic out of your life and you will live a better life!! Don't waste your time on him.... Will you ever trust him? You will never let him go by himself because you don't know what he may do! In the back if your head you will always think "what is he doing" !! It will take several years of kiss but to trust him!! It sounds like he will cheat again before this happens! Most guys don't know what the consequence are. They don't realize until they find the one that sweeps them off their feet. Then they feel stupid!! This is not all guys! There are many guys out there that are great and wonderful and just need some one to share their life with!! Look at what your standards are... if you seem to keep getting these guys then you may need to change dating locations!!
2007-01-16 09:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by mirohama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men can love a woman and still cheat, according to the man of course not the woman....women r so beautiful 2 us and we r so sexually attracted to them so its hard (not impossible) not 2 cheat...when we cheap it is for a simple thrill, if a woman does usually there is an emotional connection between her and the guy she cheated with....not the case when a guy cheats, we could care less about the girl as long as we get what we want....as far as begging for forgiveness...thats usually because when we cheat, we cheat on someone who is easy and isnt so attractive or doesnt have the emotional connection that we have with our girlfriends...so it would be devestating for us 2 lose a girlfriend over a cheap screw. men have 2 heads...sometimes we think with the wrong one...
2007-01-16 09:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by tyler 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men never want to be the bad guy. We mess up, apologize then expect women to accept it and go on. If a woman doesn't accept the apology then we can blame the break on her.
Remember also, men will saying just about anything for sex. If a women really wants to know about a guy, then just deny him sex.
Note: Not all men. There are some good ones out there.
2007-01-16 09:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they know that they can and they know that us stupid women will put up with it for a while until we cant handle it anymore. Well, not all women but the majority. I know I did with first husband. And it is also that controlling part in their mind and they just cant say no to another female. They think it makes them less of a man if they say no.
2007-01-16 09:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by themom95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do this because they know you will take them back. It's like they don't want you but also they don't want anyone else to have you either. Once a cheater, always a cheater especially after twice already. It's obvious he isn't going to change.Tell him he made his choice when he chose to have an affair on you and move on. You deserve better! Good Luck
2007-01-16 09:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the question I would be asking is why women stay with men like that? Men like that have no concept of love and are selfish pigs. They don't think that's the problem. If you keep taking them back they learn no responbility and no consequences.... dump em fast, dump em hard and thank your lucky stars you didn't marry them
2007-01-16 09:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy like that will continue to cheat on you . The crying is his way to keep you where he wants you . You may sincerely love him . Making it hard to let him go . If you value yourself let him go . This is a classic "love hurts" situation . Try to love yourself more than you love him .
2007-01-16 09:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a man does all that he doesnt truely love you, he could give a rats *** about you, all the men ive dated told me that. the man that raped me, he made me give him head we were dating at the time so i didnt think any thing was wring w/ it, he always told people we never did anything, then everytime we broke uo he wouild tell me he misssed the things we did (so i was always like like what the **** you said we didnt do anything. he alaways got me to give him a handjob or a ******* and i hated it but i just went along w/ it cuz i thought he loved me and i thought i loved him. he told me he loved me and never wanted to hurt me, but he would call me fat one time he got some other girl to talk **** about me while him and i was on the fone, and around that time i was hearing voices, so he told me i was hearing voiced, but it got much worst after i had finaly had enough of his bull **** i finaly brok up with him then he raped me, then i did all kinds of crazy stuff for several years, im finally hetting over it, im not letting him/the rape contol me im controlling it!
so when they cheat on you and tell you they love you... really, its a lie!
2007-01-16 09:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there are some men who if they know they can get away with it they will try to get away with it, so it better to not let them...don't give them a chance to do this thing to you because once you let them and forgive them they will alway be asking for it.
2007-01-16 09:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋