If you would meet a girl you really like , and she just can't stand one thing about you, depends on each individuall what's your habit you know yourself well enough, would you change it in a heartbeat for her???
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2007-01-16 01:17:45 · 15 answers · asked by m_faery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the habit was harmful, then I'd attempt to correct the habit. My question would be: "Is this the only 'bad' habit I have in your eyes or do I have other 'habits' that need to change?" Our personalities are "us" which includes habits - so in the long run I would take a second look at the individual asking me to change, to see if "changing habit(s)" is worth the price? Additionally, there are other people of the opposite or same gender that may like the habit(s) that I currently have. It's a thin edge that a person walks when trying to impose yourself (values) upon another individual to change - regardless of gender. We change every day, it is in some cases we do not realize it (the change can be for the positive or for the negative). That being said, I believe a person has to be flexible enough to realize that s/he may need to change - no change in a relationship is asking for that relationship to become destroyed - the difficulty is having or learning to reach a middle ground where both individuals feel that the situation (habit) being changed has become a win-win not a win-lost situation.
2007-01-16 01:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by 2PH's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the habit, some are not easy to quit. I can tell you that after three years of trying I was finally able to quit smoking (which my wife was hoping for). I was a 20 yr smoker and it was hard as hell but since the day she mentioned it (and i realized that growing old with her was more important than my game of slow russian roulette) I have tried.
It also depends on the way the girl asks. My Ex-wife want ed me to quit but "F*CKING STOP SMOKING" just doesn't seem as supportive and helpful as "I know you are trying and I know you can do it"
2007-01-16 01:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 06:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in a heartbeat! But, eventually it could get there. Im workin on quittin smokin right now for my wife. The thing is, I was smokin when she met me. She should of thought about that before we got married.
2007-01-16 01:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Atimalala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the habit. some are really hard to break. but I would be wiliing to make some changes.
2007-01-16 01:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mike S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships, are for the most part give and take or sometimes give and give and give again, and because nobod'ys perfect and if the guy really cares about the girl he would be willing to change, but its also nice if she could change something at the same time, this way he would,t feel like he was being manipulated.......................
2007-01-16 01:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by WURSTNGHTMARE61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at least 2 heartbeats
2007-01-16 01:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is worth it and i really, really love her i'll change in a heartbeat and sorry i'm serious about this so no laughs for you!
2007-01-16 01:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
changing people does not work in my opinion, so I would hope that we could just except each other as is or just leave each other alone.
2007-01-16 01:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a bad habit then yes i would change, but if not there are plenty other girls out there that will accept me for who i am.
I hope....
2007-01-16 01:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Brian is weird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋