Husband
Thought he had mono---- He claimed he didn't know what it was
Suddenly has a raw penis----- Claims its always like that
He wanted my ex to move in our house for $---- Claims it was just a dumb thought.
Has started to fake orgasms----- Claims nothing came out but he did
Has suddenly developed a cravng for candy bars at the same time every night and goes to the store(nonetheless briefly)
He called my sister baby twice---- claims it just slipped out.
He says I am just crazy and paranoid, and should just love and trust him no matter what. I don't think I'm crazy, do you?
I need to know before I file divorce papers. All this occurs while I am currently pregnant.
2007-01-16 01:13:09 · 38 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry, but he's banging your sister. And maybe some other people as well.
2007-01-16 01:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
if you think hes cheating then chances are he is.
My ex-husband did the exact same things when I was pregnant the first time. He made me believe that it was my hormones. Then the second pregnancy gets here and all of a sudden same again. And, like the first time he told me. Don't be silly, its just the hormones messing with you.
Anyway, three kids and a eight year marriage later and he admits he was, he was #@%*ing around on me all along. With as many as he could get, whenever he could it.
During the first pregnancy I went for a walk one day. The next thing I know I'm waking up in the hospital. I had Tricanausis, a std that effects the brain development of the unborn fetus. Luckily for me my blood pressure was low witch was what caused me to faint. Otherwise I would never have been able to do anything. But it was found out in time to take a few tablets. Then when I got out of hospital my ex beat me bad(I was six months pregnant). Told me that I was cheating and that I gave him the std. Refused to take responsibility for our son. I proved he is the father. I took him back and regret all but maybe 10 mins of the whole marriage (the minutes when I got pregnant)
Get rid of him honey, better for you and especially for that baby. The baby fells everything you feel. Remember that.
You don't deserve this. Nobody does.
2007-01-16 02:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by gonges2005 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't undertand why you're considering divorcing him. Because he's kind of weird? Because he has an undiagnosed illness? Because you think he faked orgasms? None of what you wrote sounds like a good reason to divorce someone, especially not if you're pregnant.
Are you paranoid? Has anyone else ever told you that you seemed paranoid? Do you usually assume people are acting out of a desire to do harm to you? Do you find that other people frequently deny things you claim they did, said, felt, or thought? If any of these are true, you may want to get treatment.
2007-01-16 01:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wanted your ex to move in the house with you all? Aww girl he was trying to get you two back together to occupy your time and sexual desires because he is screwing someone else and without a condom for that fact! I would stop having sex with him because you dont know what he is doing. To be honset I would wait until he has another one of these "unscheduled" candy attacks and slip on my shoes and grab my keys and follow him to see where he goes. If he really does go to the store, it will ease your mind. But if he doesnt then you'll know he was lying the whole time. He shouldnt be calling your sis "baby". He must be attracted to her, you guys probably look alike...(go figure)
Overall I wouldnt trust it and I would get to the bottom of it especially because he has STD symptoms! That is endangering you and your baby. You guys come first!
2007-01-16 01:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well all this can be explained logically
probably had a cold sore not mono
could have a raw penis because he masturbates roughly
wants an extra bit of money so suggests his ex cos maybe he knos she would move in and pay
had low blood sugar needs chocolate
says "baby" cos she is your sister and you are pregnant got the word baby on his mind
says you are crazy because you are probably hormonaly unstable just now and suspecting him of everything................
then again he could be cheating scum so get someone to follow him to the store
good luck to you and the baby
2007-01-16 01:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by jambutty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good! Raw penis is usually from being over used! Go get checked for STDs! Get rid of him if he is NOT being faithful. You can follow and check on him when he has his candy craving. Baby ---I don't buy that answer either. Good luck!
Been there and never want to do it again!
2007-01-16 01:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by ILOVELUCYFAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish to handle this lightly because i'm sure u r feeling quite fragile about this and some people's answers can be a little blunt and harsh.
i dont think i would believe any of this. to me it is all just a little too much. if it were only one or two of these things, i may, but with all of them put together, i just dont think i would. it would all just be a little too convinient... if he it telling the truth, then he has very unfortunate luck!
if i were u, i would confront him one last time before filing papers. im so very sorry to be saying this because its none of my business to judge, but i dont think he is being very honest with you.
i truly hope u feel better about this - i mean it from the bottom of my heart. it hurts very much, and i know this. i wish u the very best of luck and hope very much that i was able to help u, even just a little.
2007-01-16 01:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's some shady sh*t right there and if you're really serious about divorce and are not happy with him beyond these actions, which I'm sorry I don't like to generally jump to conclusion but these actions definitely lead me to believe that he is cheating or up to no good, then yeah I would file them.
2007-01-16 02:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's gay to me. Raw penis and faking orgasms?? I see your picture on Y360 and you're pretty hot so why would he fake an orgasm if he's not gay? Even if he was cheating he should still be able to have sex with you and orgasm!?!? Sounds like he as a raw penis from gay sex (not natural lubrication in the rear end) and fakes an orgasm because he doesn't want to be with a women anymore.
2007-01-16 01:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Something is not right, but you need to get some answers before you run out and file divorce papers. I don't think you're crazy, but if you are pregnant, you owe it to your child to try to keep your marriage together, if it's possible. Good luck!
2007-01-16 02:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure that the divorce papers include a substantial amount for child support. Advise him to buy pants that button so he doesn't get little willy caught in a zipper or something else.
2007-01-16 02:12:45 · answer #11 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋