My neighbour told me a while back he had feeling for me)and before anyone asks there has NEVER been anything between us)he made out to me that him and his partner going through really rough time and i gave him what i thought good advice that i was not the answer to his problems and to sort things out with her.They had argument last night and he,s told her what he said to me!!! I cant believe it! this was ages ago and i thought as ive told him no way it was forgotten about. I didnt tell her because 1 i didnt want to hurt her and 2 hoped that was the end of it.She,s devastated and i feel sick to my stomach.I spoke to her last night and at least he had the decency to tell her it was down to him and he,s made a *** of his self she,s been ok with me i think she understands this was all one sided.But i got up this morning and i feel ill with i dont know what.I dont know what to say to her and im dreading seeing him coz i think i,ll go for him.WHY DO THIS IM SO ANGRY
2007-01-16 01:09:57 · 3 answers · asked by smiler 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry just realised ive put this in wrong section .advice still appreciated
2007-01-16 01:14:33 · update #1
It isn't your fault that some man makes a pass at you because he fancies his chances with you.
The rough time he mentioned is the usual rubbish that men come out with when they want your sympathy (i.e. sympathy sex). Oh, poor him, I suppose you were going to drop your clothes there and then and make him feel better (please laugh, you need to - he is pathetic).
He's told his wife what he said to you to make her feel jealous (also called using an innocent party to make a point - which sucks).
I think a very cold stare is in order for him.
As for her - look her straight in the eye. You have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. He has. I bet the sofa has his name on it.
(P.S. Let me guess - you're either younger or prettier than her. What an ***!).
2007-01-16 03:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nuffin u can do as long as ur friend understands that non of this is ur fault then why bother with him? jus ignore him and forget about it u cant change the past what is done is done, so aslong as ur names clear then u have nuffin to worry about. xx
2007-01-16 01:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just said that to you to liven up his relationship with her.... they will stay together
2007-01-16 02:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋