i have a gf and want her to do what i told her to do ( like donot talk to this guy , don't go for that party ) i want her fell happy but i am jealous for her
2007-01-16 02:02:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-16 02:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by wolfchat_2005 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
she is not ur maid, she is ur gf. for me u r acting like a dictator and women don't like that. if u want her to stop talking to guys u have to ask her real nice. u can say baby u know i love u and all,but lately i don't like the way u have been acting. u hang out with too many guys and u party a lot. so I'm asking u this for the love i have for and for the love u have for me, i am asking u to stop because u r hurting. it kills me inside every time i see u with some other guy. if she loves u she will slow it down or just stop, but if she doesn't love u i think u should do something about it.
2007-01-16 10:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to fix your problem of being jealous....
Other people will always do what they want to do because it's who they are.... they might be able to ACT a certain way for a while, but who they truly are will eventually come out.
Part of being in a relationship is trusting the person you are with. If they betray your trust, you get hurt, and that unfortunately is part of life... you just have to deal with that.
Being jealous will destroy your relationships with woman, it will make them think you don't trust them, don't believe in them. That will make them feel like not being in love with you... and you will lose out.
Good Luck
2007-01-16 10:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Corvette Red Racer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Possessiveness and jealousy is a severe problem you are going to have to work on. You are lucky to even have a g/f. You won't for much longer if you keep this nonsense up.
1. Work on your own problems with jealousy.
2, Treat your g/f with respect.
3. Let her be her own person.
If you don't like the person she is. Then move on. Don't know where you will move too though unless you yourself straiten up. Not many girls out there will put up with any one treating them this way.
2007-01-16 10:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are u serious ? i hope this is a joke because otherwise your a jerk and your girlfriend should get as far away from u as possible. no one likes being controlled treat her how u want to be treated not like a possession. if u keep this up u will loose her. how would u feel if she wanted to control your every move? i bet you'd run a mile.
2007-01-16 10:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by mandiej81 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know, you cannot make any one do any thing they are not willing to do so either accept that or find a girl who has no self esteem so you can get what you want but remember every thing has a price
2007-01-16 10:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by sexy gurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with her to the party and let her know in a nice way you don't want her talking to other men
2007-01-16 10:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
set boundaries...come up with a deal
my bf feels the same way..he gets a lil jealous even if i casually talk to another guy. ugh...just talk or something! tell her how u feel!
2007-01-16 10:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your really in for this relationship your just going to have to trust her, she is her own person and you cant make her do anything she doesnt want to
2007-01-16 10:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by lily paige 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What right do you have to try to control anybody. She is still an individual, and she still needs to make her choices. If you don't like what she is doing, leave.
2007-01-16 10:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by CL R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then why would you want to control her? Be careful what you wish for or she may be so utterly dependant on you that she has no will of her own.
2007-01-16 10:06:35 · answer #11 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋