I feel sick.....?

Question

my 'ex' has just admitted that he has met somebody else but he would rather get back with me - I don't think a relationship with him will work but I still don't like the idea of being with someone else so soon - I wish he had never told me. We were together for 2 years and have only just split up - what should I do? I hate feeling like this :o(

Answer 1

Come round here and I'll give you a few bangs to take your mind off it.

Answer 2

you should just move on. at least he was good enough to tell you as you'd be devastated if you saw them together walking down the street or something.

you have to get over it- it'll be very hard but you have to.

if you have kids with this man- tell him that you dont want this other woman coming to your house when he poicks them up, or even introducing her until he has prooved this is a serious relationship for him and thie other woman. you dont want your kids meetingnew partners all the time. it goes for you too- if you meet someone then dont introduce him to the kids until hes the one.

if you dont have kids then this break- up isnt as hard. you have nothing that'll keep him coming round to see you. if its that hard, take time off work or move away and start afresh, i know it means leaving everything behind but if its that hard- go for it.

otherwise just get on with it. yes it'll be hard and even if you meet someone else, your ex meant a lot to you and you will have so many memories.

please dont think getting into another relationship will solve anything- it'll hurt you and this other person.

Answer 3

AAHH Kitty-cat, Take some time out. Get yourself into gear and forget about him. He did not take long to find someone else did he. No, you clear your head of him and be by yourself for a while. Good to be alone and just do your own thing. Wish you well, meouuuuu.:))

Answer 4

i think deep down you will no if it is right to get back together i personally couldnt get back with my partner if he left me for someone else as i think there is something missing for him to do it in the first place.but some people do deserve a second chance only you no what you are felling hun.take care it will work out in the end,promise what ever you decide to do.

Answer 5

All I can say is that you should think long and hard about any kind of communication with this person. If you think (even the tiniest bit) that it would hurt you if he was with someone else, or if you have even the tiniest doubts about being without him, then give him another chance.

Answer 6

Getting back together will be difficult now that the trust has gone. He obviously wasnt taking you relationship that seriously if he has strayed after 2 yrs. Good luck and think of yourself now.

Answer 7

I know how you feel. I've been there too but the truth is you just need to let him go. It won't work if you go back to him. Just try not to think about it. Go out with your friends. Nothing will get rid of this feeling except time.

Answer 8

You don't think it will work, but you are sick at the thought of him dating others.

This is how men get the idea that women are possessive bi-otches lol. You're not, but you got to let it go. Time for a new hobby. Sell stuff on ebay or take up golf. Get your mind off it.

Answer 9

He's clearly not worth it if he's behaving like that.
Tell him to stop playing games and in the meantime munch your way through an entire family sized bar of Dairy Milk :)

Answer 10

He is playing games. He wants his cake and eat it too.
If he found someone else, why is he trying to get back with you?
If you do not want to be with someone else now, then be alone for awhile and figure yourself out some.

Answer 11

Although one has to wonder what his intent is by telling you this, you're best just to forget about it and try not to let it bother you. Chances are its a rebound relationship anyway. Maybe you should stop talking to him altogether for awhile?