i am interested to know peoples feelings on this.
2007-01-16 02:04:58 · 38 answers · asked by sid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
17 years is nothing in the scheme of things :) Don't worry about what other people think.
2007-01-16 02:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think loada people will be against. But dont listen to waht they say. Listen to your heart. Hey look at katie holmes and Tom cruise. Honestly i wouldnt mind. I feel you are doing the right thing. Just ask her on how she feels. 25 i mean thats a reasonable age for a proper relationship. On the other hand i have admired your affair. Age should never seperate people After all females get matured faster than males.
2007-01-16 02:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Babykay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes the fact that you are mature and have it together compared to men in their 20's or even 30's. The only real concern is down the road when you are 70 and she is 53 then she may dump you for a guy in the 50's. Be careful and make sure that she isnt looking for a sugar daddy.
2007-01-16 02:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so what do you want to know?
If you both have feelings for each other, fine.
If your using her as a "bit on the side", then you are playing with fire!
Is she using you?
I think you are seeking approval of the age gap between you?
Do the two families know?
You can't expect opinions from people who are not in possession of the full facts!
2007-01-16 03:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Peter R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter but maturity does. I think that when you are considered a senior citizen in about 8 years, she'll only be 33 and that could cause serious problems. I have heard of relationships working with an age gap such as yours. I married a man that was 14 years older than me, it didn't work. He wanted to "daddy" me and I didn't need another one. He was controlling. He became insecure because of my age.
2007-01-16 02:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as she's a mature 25 that's not a problem. Age is just a number and if you're both happy go for it.
2007-01-16 02:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my partner when I was 21 and he was in his 42 i think, we have a 20 year old daughter at uni and everythings fine,but the age gap does start to show later, he'70 and i'm 46, you have to bare this in mind, fortunately he is a young 70
2007-01-16 02:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by manx girl Isle of Man. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 42 and dating a girl of 28.. we've been dating for 7 years.. where's the issue??? Older women are crap in bed and too young and your a peodofile!! Stick at it and enjoy the ride!!!!
2007-01-16 02:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by bikeranimal69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband is 19 years older than me and we have been together for 13 years (married for 7 of them) and I don't feel that there is an age gap between us.
2007-01-16 02:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you both like each other then who cares what age you both are.
Love does not have an age limit on it, i should know my boyfriend is 15 years older than me and i could not care less what anyone else thinks because he makes me smile and that's all that matters.
xxx
2007-01-16 03:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 25 i dated a man 52 and there is nothing wrong w/it as long as you r both comfortable with each other. u go guy
2007-01-16 02:16:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋