my bf been away on holiday 4 2 weeks and im not sure if he has cheeted on me .wat should i do?
2007-01-16 01:59:16 · 17 answers · asked by u'd tap this! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
meet me at the bar and get him back, he is definatly cheating
2007-01-16 02:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by marc l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to check his cell phone for any suspicious phone # and messages. If there isn't anything there, chances are: he didn't do it; he did it, but he cares about your feelings and deleted everything; he did it, but it was just for the night and they didn't even exchange phone # for further contact.
Second, keep your ears open for "coded words" when he talks with his friends, since guys, always would "spill the beans" with them.
Third, wait for a while, if he doesn't start changing his attention towards you, he had either realized that after all you are "the one" he wants or if he changes, then he is not the one for you.
Good Luck...
2007-01-16 10:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by lovemyfunnydoggies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's difficult because the only way you will know is by asking him. If you have real reason to suspect then just ask him. Easier said than done but at least then you will know.
Good luck and I really hope he hasn't cheated on you if you really like him. x
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2007-01-16 10:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... i think that a relationship is based around trust so if u 2 r really made for each other than u should trust him. ask him what he got up to in his holiday. dont think the worst of your boyfriend . hope this helps k babe x x x
2007-01-16 10:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try calling him. if he doesn't answer then leave him a message and make sure you say something like, "Hey BABY! This is YOUR GIRLFRIEND --------(say your name after that). I was just calling to tell you that I MISS MY BF and I just wanted to say that I LOVE YOU and cant wait until you come HOME so WE can spend time TOGETHER." If he's with another girl when he listens to this then that will completely throw him off. But if he answers listen to the background noise. If there are any laughs (female) then ask him what that was. If he is acting shady then just say, "Why can't you call me baby, or tell me you love me and say that your talking to your girlfriend??" This will throw him off more, if he's cheating.
2007-01-16 10:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by jessilynne16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume. Ask him how his holiday was. Did he enjoy himself. The truth will come out eventually, but if you ask him directly and he is innocent, he will know you don't trust him. If you don't trust him, why are you with him?
2007-01-16 10:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Saz_E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few weeks. If anything develops, you have conclusive proof. Do you know what i mean?? Maybe re-evaluate your trust in men.
2007-01-16 10:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust him. Hes your boyfriend but if you've got any reason to thi nk he did than just say it straight to his face. If he really loves you and didnt do nayuthing then youll know.
2007-01-16 10:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by CLAIRE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn spelling and then grammar!
2007-01-16 11:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by Peter R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him and don't worry about it
have you cheated on him while he was away ?
2007-01-16 10:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by Elvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋