I recently had sex with a married woman who is going through a divorce...I think. That's what she told me, anyway. She wears the ring still, and she hasn't told her friends about the divorce. So, she pretends she's still married. But, I don't know if maybe he was gone for awhile and lied to me about getting a divorce or if she's telling the truth. Why would you hide something from your own friends? They'll know when it's all done with, right? Do you thinkk she's full of crap?
Is it wrong to continue sleeping with her? I don't know...I really like her.
2007-01-16 02:38:03 · 20 answers · asked by Shane M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds to me that you are being played. If she was getting a divorce her friends would be the first to know. I don't think it sounds like she is sincere about getting a divorce, sounds like she is having a little cake and eating it too. You are probably going to wind up being a victim in all this along with her husband.. You say you like her, well I am glad you didn't say love her..Break this little game of hers up now before you get real hurt.. Try to think how you would feel if you were her husband??? She's a cheater. Are you sure you can live with the fact that you are participating in her cheating against her husband.. NOT RIGHT!!! Good luck to you and your decision.
2007-01-16 02:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to get the same answer I would give to a woman in this same situation. Go with your gut! You have reservations about her marital status and you can verify if a divorce is started by going to your counties Superior Court site and do a search for any filed documents. Some counties will do a name search for you over the phone and tell you the name of the document that has been filed.
Do not continue to sleep with her or have contact with her until you have found out the truth and the above should take no more than an hour. There are some just plain no good women out there just like the no good men doing the same thing.
2007-01-16 02:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sprint in the opposite direction if I were you, leaving skid marks. If she is still wearing her wedding ring, I'm willing to bet a decent amount of money that not only has she NOT told her friends about her impending divorce, but she hasn't told her husband either. I'm willing to bet she has no intention of divorcing. Not ever a good situation to be the "other man" or woman for that matter. Some way or another, you'll fall victim to the law of return. I would jump ship while there's still a life boat available if I were you.
2007-01-16 03:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lilith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lying to you.
1. If she was getting a divorce Her friends would know
2. She would not be wearing her wedding ring
3. When getting a divorce no one pretends they are still married
Wake up man don't let her use you like this. I'm sure you deserve better. When she is finished using you she will dump you without a second thought.
2007-01-16 02:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone here said something about morals. Maybe one or more of us have fallen off the fidelity wagon before. It's one of those gray areas anyone can fall into- given a certain state of mind and circumstances. Many times, the marriage is just over every way but legally. Ideally, we should know ourselves, be straight up with everyone, and proactively deal with a marriage that is not working. But this woman is showing signs of just downright recreational cheating. Her friends don't know, she shows signs of wanting to hold onto the marriage, or the idea of being married. There are many fish in the sea, my friend. Her mystique does not run deep, I assure you- she is very common. Whatever the attraction is, it isn't worth wasting your time.
2007-01-16 04:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by catarina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First mistake is to do what you did with a married woman..Second mistake is to let her lie to you.And last but not least get a grip come on it ain't worth the drama if she is married tell her to go work it out or get a divorce but ither way move on.You know right from wrong or do you?Actually if you have a true conscience you already know the answer..
2007-01-16 02:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong- you're sleeping with a married woman, who is probably lying to a number of people about where she is when she's in bed with you.
Come on dude- get some morals! Have some standards! Are you that desperate for sex that you have to resort to doing married women???
2007-01-16 02:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd better find out for sure before you continue the relationship. Otherwise, you may end up being in the wrong place at the wrong time if her husband decides to come back.
2007-01-16 03:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...SHE IS LYING TO YOU! NOT HER FRIENDS...YOU!
She is very much still married and not even thinking about getting a divorce. You are just something to do on the side! WAKE THE HELL UP!!!!
2007-01-16 03:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by SheSoFly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you answered your own question. It's best to wait until she's divorced to start fooling aroound with her. She might be lying to you, and just wanted some strange.
2007-01-16 02:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋