my boyfriend and i live together. his ex wife is trying to put a order in that he cant stay the night with me unless we are married. I am widdowed and it in my best finalical interest not to remarry, but i also dont want to lose him over this. I do know that she has another child by a different man who has lived with a another woman for years and she has never said anyting about it. I know this is just to get back at him for whatever. But can she do it to one dad and not the other?
2007-01-16 02:25:50 · 23 answers · asked by mess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the divorse and me beging widowed are not new things. i had nothing to do with the devorice didnt even know him then. yes i have kids but he is a very loving and caring for them and has made the world of difference in my kids. he has showed my kids more constent and stedy love than their father ever could. nothing aganist my kids dad. and i dont make comments like that to them i let them remember their dad how they choose to and i support them in that and i provide memories to support it.
2007-01-16 03:12:01 · update #1
She can try but it won't work. She wants to get back at him by forcing him to get remarried? Wacky to say the least and I doubt she has really thought this through. Someone needs to point out to her that if he did get remarried he could then go to court and file for full custody. Especially since you are financially stable and seemingly more stable.
2007-01-16 02:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by jackson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never heard of this before. She cant stop him from doing whatever he wants to since they are divorced. Now if a child was involved she can stop the child from spending the nite if she has just cause and if he ever challenged it in court, she would have to produce her evidence. But there is nothing legally she can do to the both of you as long as your both consenting adults. She can threaten all she wants but she cant do nothing about it. You can also tell her you will sue her for harassment if she continues. Sounds like someone refuses to let go. Good luck but you dont have a thing to worry about here. The law is on yourside.
2007-01-16 10:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can put it in the divorce papers that the child's parent cannot have anyone staying with them while the child is there if they are not married. If she doesn't have it in the papers where could take him back to court and put that clause in them. But if worse comes to worse. When he does have his child over for the night just sleep somewhere else for that night, maybe a relatives house.
2007-01-16 10:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by jeter2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing she can do. If that was the case every angry ex wife or husband could ruin the current realtionship between their ex's. You have nothing to fear. She isnt ready to let go and she wants to cause as many problems as she can bewtween you two. She'll eventually give up after reality sinks in hopefully. Just dont let that stop you from being a wonderful girlfriend and continue doing whatever you are doing. ;)
2007-01-16 10:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the loneliness of being a widow. But why would you want a guy that would cheat on his wife. If he cheats on her what makes you think he will not do it to you. I would rather be lonely than be with a liar and a cheat. If he is already divorced, she can't stop you from living together, but if you are the reason for the divorce shame on you.
2007-01-16 10:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can put a clause in divorce decree stating that he can have no roommates unless married while children are with him. I only know this because when my hubby and I were getting a divorce, I considered putting that clause in there, but decided not too. We ended up getting back together anyway
2007-01-16 10:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by cappe2572 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I take it that a child visits? If he has custody and there is activity in the house that is unhealthy, she can take the child. If the child visits and there is unhealthy activity going on she can ask the court for supervised visits.
There is nothing she can do about you two living together other than the above.
2007-01-16 10:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness this one of the worst cases of female cattiness that I have heard in along time. You cannot stop this woman from filing this petition...but I can just about bet that she will come to the realization that she has spent her money foolishly. The judge will probably tell her to move on with her life and stop nit-picking her baby daddy!
2007-01-16 10:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Itiyah Yisrael 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of anywhere in the known world where she can have such done. She may prevent him from seeing his child when you are around, but so long as neither of you have any major criminal records or child abuse issues there is nothing she can do so long as he pays his child support. She is just being mean.
2007-01-16 10:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by mvngs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is an empty threat. She can't prevent you & your boyfriend from living together. As long as your both of age there is nothing she can do. Don't let her manipulate you with her drama. She just trying to create friction in your relationship.
2007-01-16 10:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by genuine1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋