Me and my boyfriend are having problems because of his ex. shes still living with him at his house. which is awkward. i really love him too. now since shes screwing up her life on drugs. he said he might have to pick between both of us. its either me or her and i cant take it anymore. please give me some advice ill love yall forever thanx
*~Snuffy~*
2007-01-16 02:31:11 · 18 answers · asked by Snuffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him.
NEVER would I date a guy who still lived with his ex girlfriend. NOTHING good can come out of that. and you don't need to be in the middle of their messed up relationship....
Dump him..
2007-01-16 02:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not quite sure why she is still living with him, but I would not be okay with that. If he has to chose between the two and you feel like you are being strung along I would tell him that you will make his decision easy for him and leave him. Tell him that when he gets his life back together to give you call. You should not have to compete with her for your boyfriend.
2007-01-16 10:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Snuffy you got to be kidding me. look man if he want's that drug head let it be. you move on in your life. you don't need a man like that. good luck to you
2007-01-16 10:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh!!ya it really hurts but u have to be direct with him.tell him all about your feelings and what u utimately want??and how u feel about the drugging ex living under his roof.and what he thinks and wants out from u.i think finding out the truth is better than finding it out later.cuz it will hurt u more.
2007-01-16 10:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by kabayan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, if someone told me they have to pick between me and someone else, I'd pick for them and tell them to go back to the loser they were with. He is not ready for a relationship with someone else.
2007-01-16 10:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question....why is he allowing her to live with him? Is it because he is a very good person and is honestly trying to help her or is he still involved with her. If he is trying to help her, join him in the effort. If there is something else....run as fast as you can.
2007-01-16 10:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u betta tell him its u because drugs can kill u and he needs to be with a ride or die chick like u baby girl put ya foot down let him now whats up
2007-01-16 10:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by tasashamascott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he is telling you that its either you or her, save him the trouble and leave him. its obviously going to be one of those deals where he always picks her up when she falls. You dont need a relationship like that.
2007-01-16 10:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by themom95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, if he can't pick between a "clean" girl and a junkie imagine what other decision in life he's gonna suck at.
2007-01-16 10:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by the man on your monitor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask y'r b'g to choose between u or her.... simple trems - kick her out of the house
2007-01-16 10:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by open 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋