Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

I'd Been in the relationshp for over a year and then out of the blue she called it off. She gave me the classic line 'its not you'. I just can't stop thinking about it. I trying to move on. She still speaks to me like friends. How can I talk to her back when I still in love with her? I can't just cut her out of my life as she has been too important to me.

How long does it take to get over someone?

2007-01-16 03:09:42 · 10 answers · asked by andy 2 in Singles & Dating

let say if someone was never your frend...they lied to u all and used to to get to ur other frend. then they r goin to fake cry to make u feel bad

2007-01-16 03:09:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My step dad is trying to 'do' me. I'm 17 and find myself very attractive. He keeps asking for sex without asking for it. I want it too. He's only 30 and has made it a point to show off his 'thing'. I would love it and he is only my step dad. Should I? My mom has told me to go for it.

2007-01-16 03:09:20 · 53 answers · asked by write2memore 1 in Family

He wants to get back together. But he never hangs out with me.
He is always palying games, or going to his friends to hang out. I am usually alone most of the time.
I am not needy, jsut need a relationship.
i try to talk to him and he says wait until the game is over.
ugh.

2007-01-16 03:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or felt that somebody was better than you ?

2007-01-16 03:08:39 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been married 7 years and have 2 children. we have had our ups and downs but managed to get through. but about 6 months ago he started to become very distant both emotionally and physically, "working" long hours, even spending the night elsewhere. a few days ago, my suspicions were confirmed - he had been developing a relationship with another woman. he claims it is innocent, but it is clear he's very fond of her (in his car, he was hiding a photo of her and him together, the car that only he has the key to). he justifies this "friendship" by saying that i have not been romantic enough, and that he had a right to be happy. he says he has reached a limit with me and refuses to stop associating with this other woman. i still love my husband, and i am totally devastated. i know our children will be deeply affected if we split up. is it worth trying to fight to save this marriage or should i make a clean break now?

2007-01-16 03:08:01 · 25 answers · asked by harleyq8 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 03:07:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Neither of us are really into the romantic sappy stuff. We've been going out for 3 months and we're totally in love. I want to get him something meanful, but that wont embarrass him. Any ideas?

2007-01-16 03:07:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husbands physical appearence seems to be the main hindrence of our unstable relation ship.he is very short ,divorcee,and 17 years older than me.he is now 47.we have no children.i avoided to have children because iam confusedof my relationship and not sure whether i could be able to adjust in it of i will divorce him.
we always remain apart for 1 to 2 years after severe quarrels.
now also iam living away from him since 2 years.
what should i do .iam afraid to take any decision .marriage mean every thing to me but the circumstances made me to take such steps.
he is also very nervous that he dont have any children,some times i also feel that if we had children the situation might be better than this .
can i go there but iam afraid that at this age my husband is not interested in children he says its seems awakward.
what shuold i do plz advice me guininely.
eagerly waiting for u r reply.

2007-01-16 03:06:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my feeling is it is just a threat but what if they actually did it, how would you deal with the guilt.

2007-01-16 03:06:09 · 32 answers · asked by scout1567 2 in Marriage & Divorce

listen this girl says that she doesnt want any thing but i know that she does and i dont really know what to get her because all my other ex girls i got them flowers and s*** like that but i want to do something else cause i really think that i love dis female.

2007-01-16 03:05:57 · 5 answers · asked by $$ 78 th 1LG Big Dice $$ 1 in Singles & Dating

My buddy (21) is on his nerves about the Maryland law system and he wants to find out whether its ok to have sex with his girlfriend (17), Eventhough she turns 18 in a couple of weeks. Can someone help clarify

2007-01-16 03:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by Maverick5 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a hypothetical question on what you would do if your spouse were to be diagnosed as HIV+. I got several good answers; but a number of them assumed, mistakenly, that I was the HIV affected party.

This shows that we are a little too hasty in answering the question. So also in everyday life. Our words and actions are often uttered and performed in haste, and this gives rise to unnecessary and avoidable misunderstandings.

So the next time we get the urge to submit an answer, we must pause a little, reconsider the question, and only then proceed with the answer. If you agree, raise your hand.

2007-01-16 03:05:24 · 9 answers · asked by wisdom tooth 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I blush really often without any apparent reason. A couple of years ago I hated this in me, which nearly turned me into a recluse, because I was even afraid to go to the shop and buy something! Now thank God I am back on track, socially active, optimistic and an open person. I still do blush, but I am gradually learning to like this feature in me... People do tease me occasionally about it, but i guess they don't mean anything bad and don't consider me being a weirdo? I had boyfriends in the past, but I am single at the mo. I was just wondering how do guys react on a girl who blushes?:)

2007-01-16 03:04:57 · 3 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and I find myself looking forward to seeing him, only frequently he doesn't make it, and the disappointment is harder to handle than just not seeing him at all. I don't think he likes me that way anyhow, but I can't help hoping. How can I find out for sure?

2007-01-16 03:04:12 · 20 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it because my "manhood" is freakishly large?

2007-01-16 03:04:06 · 18 answers · asked by Robby 1 in Friends

My husband and I got our first joint acct back in august of last year. We both agreed that we knew we would have alot of extra money and just put it into savings, and we both agreed that we should keep 50 dollars a week into our personal accts for things that we want on our own. He keeps spending money on crap for his mp3 player, and we never have money to put into savings after all our bills are paid. AND THEN HE WONDERS WHY WE DONT!!! I havent spent any of OUR money on my stuff. What can I say that wont sound demanding, or mean to make him understand he needs to stop spending OUR money on crap so we can actually save money? Last time I approached him about this, I mustve said it the wrong way because he went off on a tangent about how when he had a seperate acct, he had alot of extra money! And then recomended that we get sep accts again!!! PLEASE HELP!

2007-01-16 03:03:41 · 16 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Being a virgin...id like to ask if those of you who arent virgins believe that sex is really worth it all. the risk of pregnancy and STDs...all the risks of being caught and getting in trouble and such...i mean if youre married, then heck, go for it. but is it really worth going and doing with someone i dont know ill even stay with for the rest of my life? (maybe that wasnt worded right...but yeah)

2007-01-16 03:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by Brandon C 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a few in the past couple of years. One of my Favorites was Pirate of the caribbean Jonny dept was the man. He's not only good looking. He was funny as hell. I saw part 1&2.

2007-01-16 03:02:55 · 17 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have two childern (I had twins), and about 4 months after I had them the father ran off. Shortly afterwards I went to Public Aid to try and get help for child support. My kids are know 14 months old, and I still haven't received anything. When I call and ask whats up, they tell me he quit the job he had. He has done this quite a few times, and they tell me there is nothing they can do about it. Now the last time I talked to them, they told me that they no longer know where he's at. So while I'm at home taking care of two childern he's out sleeping around, riding his motorcycle, and having a good time. I don't think it's fair, and I'm doing all I can think of Just so I can get back on my feet, but it doesn't seem to be good enough. And to top it all off someone has been vandilising my car. Broke side merror, slashed my front tire, and dented my hood. I have no money, and can't get my kids into a daycare so I can go look for a job. I just dont know what to do, can any one help me?

2007-01-16 03:02:28 · 24 answers · asked by Beautiful_nightmare 3 in Family

2007-01-16 03:02:13 · 2 answers · asked by shukri 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 28 years old my BF is 32 wev been together for 7 months wev been liveing together for about a month,hes great with my kids and treats us all vary good,but when i first told him I loved him he told me honestly that he wont say it back till hes 100% sure he loves me.I understand and respect that ,its been a few months sience I told him the first time and when I tell him he still says "I know".He tells me he cares for me alot and I make him happy ,he says Im so good to him ,too good he says sometimes.He was hurt vary badly by his ex wife they divorced 3 years ago and Im the first real relationship hes been in sence then I know he dosent have feelings for her anymore but he still carys the scars of her betrayal.I guess I just want to know if Im just being impatiant or if thairs something im doing wrong.Will he ever love me?

2007-01-16 03:02:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is a very tender hearted, soft spoken man who doesn't like to cause waves. His ex wife likes to take advantage of this and bug him EVERY week about when his child support is coming. Now keep in mind - he has NEVER missed a payment in 3 years and it goes through the state he doesn't even send it directly to her but it never fails, she contacts him every week asking him if and when got paid and when the check should arrive. Maybe it's jealous because my exhusband has to be dragged to court to pay his child support - so I never know when or IF my child support is coming. My husband tolerates her because if she gets mad at him she won't let him talk to his kids - so he sees it as being in the best interst of the kids to put up with her crap so he can still talk to them. I'm SO sick of this, my husband and I have only been married for 6 months and I've never said anything to her but shes getting on my last nerve, any advice? Should I just hold my tonuge or let it fly?

2007-01-16 03:00:16 · 29 answers · asked by thelilred_whocould 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl lives with her parents, I live with my mom and money is tight. We watch tv and movies and fall asleep doing that. We are going to the bar tonight but I cant go out like this all the time. She said that just being with me is good enough, but she doesnt like staying over my place because of my mom and I dont like being at her house all the time because Im sure her parents dont want me there that much even though they like me. We are a pretty serious couple, we want to get a place together in the summer. Im just worried she will get bored of the same old thing. So you see we are very restricted, will this inevitably hurt our relationship. I want to trust that if she loves me that being with me is enough.

2007-01-16 02:59:54 · 17 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Family

My new friend was behaving strange, like one day she said she was going to bed when i asked to see her, and she agreed to meet me. All of the sudden she put on this dress and had her hair done and said she had to leave.. I thought it was odd.

Now she said she has sex with men as an escort girl. I think its disgusting!!! First i said it was ok, but i dont know if i wanna have something to do with a prostitute.

What do you think..? She said most of her clients are married men and i feel that its a very cheap way of making lots of money..

2007-01-16 02:58:53 · 14 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Singles & Dating

She said that she has a 3 month rule.... Which i am fine with.... hey shes worth waiting for....

Then just now she emails me saying that she is bored at work and needs some motivation......So i reply that ...if she finishes early I will give her a kiss and a cuddle.....

She then eamils back "What counts as finishing early? I hope you don't finish early ;-)"

I have a good sense of humour ...but feel that she is teasing me...

2007-01-16 02:56:21 · 35 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

Why can't a guy wear a skirt or dress ?

2007-01-16 02:56:19 · 20 answers · asked by Me 3 in Singles & Dating

or venture out with people to have fun?

I don't mean sex. Dating going out doing things.

2007-01-16 02:56:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For me - the most traumatic turning point happened in a beautiful restaurant ... everything was perfect ... she looked so beautiful ... the very epitome of style, sophistication, sweetness and all the other nice things .... until she asked ...

"Is it okay if I fart?"

Though I love her to bits ... from that second date on ... (and over a year later) I still find it difficult to see her as an object of desire. (Like a bad curry - these killer words continue to repeat themselves in my mind - whenever I see her bum)

How about you?

2007-01-16 02:55:50 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really love my boss so much..... and i know he loves me in return but his got a very bad habit,, he goes about dating girls, difrent kind of girls that i get to see them all, sometimes when he feels am down while the girls are with him , he would tell me they are his friends but i never belived him for a moment..... although have cut him off cause i feel he cant change but i wont lie you i really love every bit of him...

2007-01-16 02:55:27 · 8 answers · asked by btreach 1 in Singles & Dating