Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

ok...last year i broke up with my ex and at school he tells every one that he likes me and wants to go back out with me!! hes asked me out about 3 times sence school started and i keep saying no because ive moved on and i dont want to go out with him. but saying no makes me feel really bad. how can i tell him that i dont like him and i just want to be friends??

2007-01-16 03:48:03 · 8 answers · asked by mandymandy 2 in Singles & Dating

So me and my gf. we have been dating for 16 months. we started before but it never relly got serious. the only problem is that she lives in Chicago and I live in St. louis. we met at a soccer tournament and we started talking and its gone from there. anyway at about the 9 month mark i cheated on her. with a girl here. i've never really had a serious relationship up to this point. and it really scared me. the bad thing is that i liked about it and she found out. anyway after about a week we worked it out and everything was fine. well about 5 days ago we got in a stupid fight about a misunderstanding. and we broke up and things were going better but then a girl told her a rumor abotu me that i cheated again. and she freaked out. after 2 days she was "seeing"someone. someone she promised me she never saw as more then a friend. and for 4 days ive tryed taking to her. she says she cant trust me to be with me but she want to be my friend. but we still gets mad when i dont say i love you when

2007-01-16 03:47:30 · 1 answers · asked by Bobby P 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister and her live in boyfriend have been having some trouble.She moved out for a few days to relax, and now things seem ok, but she's having second thoughts about her feelings for him. She has 2 small children and he has 1, and he doesn;t want to hurt any of them. I don't know what to tell her. I don't always give the best advise on guys and relationships, I've also had my doughts about relationships so I need to try and get some answers for her and myself. I hope you can help.

2007-01-16 03:47:13 · 10 answers · asked by ljg62905 1 in Singles & Dating

she's a lil' bit tomboy,but she's also just 11 y.o girl.

2007-01-16 03:47:06 · 2 answers · asked by essaminstein-ER 1 in Friends

im 17 male and act like 21 ish but sometimes my age gets the better of me and i get really insecure and thats were my 26 year old fiance comes into it all she sometimes does stuff which can make me sad or insecure and i constantly say are you alright and it just annoys her then we argue i need a sure fire way to stop my insecurities. i also have really annoyed her soo much we live together how can i make it up to her please no emails saying buy her chocolates or flowers cos they wont work , i dont have much money just moving jobs at the moment pls someone be my guardian angel i can easily help other ppl in relationships but never mine .

2007-01-16 03:46:55 · 11 answers · asked by carl f 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a question on how i could start up a conversation with a guy i'm interested in that works in a shop i visit very often, whom i have never spoken to before and someone came up with what seems a very cute idea. However, i'm not sure whether i should use it or not... Please let me know what you think of it and if i should use it with this guy... or if you think its pathetic to try? This is very important to me as i've never had a boyfriend before and no experience at all... I would love any advice...thankyou! :-)... Here's the piece of advice i received...

2007-01-16 03:46:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when in fact you live with you partner but you are not married....

what do u say? Do you simply say yes or what do you answer?

2007-01-16 03:45:59 · 33 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Weddings

Okay, so my new boyfriend is hot, good-looking, sweet, gentle and is very caring. i love him and he loves me too.
But we have problems having sex. it seems like we both don't get so high because he doesn't have quite a big penis (kinda small). we try several position but it doesn't help enough. sometimes, we both hardly feel it. I don't blame him at all because the fact that i'm a single mom of one child. I gave birth before so mine isn't too tight as well. i know it.

What do i do?

But he makes me so wet all the time. no question about it

2007-01-16 03:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by Lavender 1 in Singles & Dating

For a baby girl do you like Kelsie Marie, Kalie Saige, or Nicole Rae??? Please and thanks :D

2007-01-16 03:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by And Our Souls Met 1 in Family

I have seen lots of well answered questions regarding how to trust, and how to overcome trust issues - but does any one have have ideas on how to cope when you 'feel the fear'? For example, you have identified something that generates a feeling of mistrust within yourself, and recognise it as paranoia (or just plain unlikely)... how do you stop that sick feeling, or stop yourself from saying something you might regret or may hurt someone's feelings if unfounded?

2007-01-16 03:44:34 · 5 answers · asked by tigerfly 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, i have this situation of love obviously. I have this mate well guy whatever.. and i totally love him. But he gives me the signs and everything but its not going anywhere. I ain't the blonde bombshell that guys want but hey i got a great personality and am pretty. Why give signs if you're not interested? Thats 1st Q. 2nd of all, What is love? I really want to know.

2007-01-16 03:44:22 · 11 answers · asked by cutehonebabe2003 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a lot of rich snobs in my school. They look at me, not to blow my horn, but my clothes is expensive, and think that I am dumpy. They try to flirt with the professors and guy students. I do not like people who are jelous of me or who feel that they are better than me. How do I not get intimidated by this. If I had to do a speech with these people I would faint of fear

2007-01-16 03:44:14 · 5 answers · asked by deedeee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 03:43:59 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 03:42:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I found out after my husband left for another woman that his mother is actually his father's second wife and that his mother was pregnant and had his sister before they were married and while his father was still married to the first wife and that his sister was two before his partents got married because of the delay in the divorce. Is it true that people from divorced families take divorce lightly? Guess I should have asked more questions before the wedding, huh?

2007-01-16 03:42:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok as you all should know Shawn Hornbeck has been found and he is safe. Well I was one if his classmates/vary close friend. Well all of these people are trayen to tell me that he has changed and that his isent gonna want to have anything to do with old friends. well i am NOT gonna stop bein Shawns frind and I just wish that I knw how to keep these people out of my head. PLEASE HELP!!

2007-01-16 03:42:18 · 6 answers · asked by ~sweatypie~ 1 in Friends

hi...i'm a 16 yr old schoolgal. there's a guy in class wid whom i don't actually have a friendly equation! i'm new to this school and this guy sent me a message thru a friend not to stare at him in class! i was dumbfounded at wat he was making up! after that we always had a little pushy-pully relationship.

now one of my best frnds in class has a crush on him and i think he likes her too! but wat i don't get is why does he always have to pick an argument wid me, even if i'm standing miles away from him and talking to sumone about sumthing totally unconnected to him??? then he tells my friends to tell me not to fight wid him! and he always has to give me a side glance when i'm nearby and he's talking to sumone standing totally opposite to my direction!

this frnd of mine who has a crush on him isn't making things easier either...i got to know that she tells him everything which i say about him! now ppl say either he's interested in me or loves to pick a fight! plz temme wat to do??

2007-01-16 03:41:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People in this country need to read an anthropology book. 80% of the societies in this world allow a man to marry more than one woman. All mammal species that have sex dimorphism (male larger than female) are polygynous, meaning one male with many female sex partners. Most marriages end in divorce and most men cheat. Men naturally want variety. Wanting variety has nothing to do with whether one loves ones partner, it is natural. Read the study that found the best predictor of adultery was availability of opportunities to cheat. Don't listen to me, look these things up. Who disagrees with this?

2007-01-16 03:40:59 · 30 answers · asked by john d 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy that's in my unit at work werids me out sometimes. he comes and touches my hair, gets an inch close to me and tells me i smell good and says some cheesy pick up lines. sometimes i'm nice, other times a jerk. no matter what i say he doesn't stop. what should i do?

2007-01-16 03:40:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

give him a BJ? I don't know of anyone with those initials and besides, I can't just give another person to someone else. This isn't, like, China or something

2007-01-16 03:38:46 · 39 answers · asked by Lisa s 1 in Singles & Dating

Like close personal friends!!

2007-01-16 03:38:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've read numerous questions regarding suspected cheating from both men and women. From what they tell us it's very obvious as to what is happening. Is love really blind? Does it blind you from the truth? I've been in love and I am currently in love but if any of these things happened to me, I would not have to ask anyone if I felt my "loved one" was cheating on me. Would you know if your spouse was cheating on you without having to ask anyone?

2007-01-16 03:38:17 · 22 answers · asked by mvas800 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this new coworker for few months, I LIKE her lot, but she seem not interested, i asked her out once two month ago and now recently. she refusssed.
how i can be be just friend with her/ and how i let her know that now i want freindship nothing more.... instead giving her the felling that i am still following her,,
Should i just go to her and tell her that i just want to be friend or just play it cool? and only say hi,,not much..else talking..

2007-01-16 03:37:57 · 7 answers · asked by mopugh s 1 in Singles & Dating

Now this might be 'classic' boy doesn't want to commit type thing, but I was in a relationship for 5 years and split from that in late October.

Now I have met a girl in Scandinavia and have visited her. We've been on the phone alot but have only spent a week actually together. Incidentally the sex was amazing for both of us.

I know she really likes me, but she has only just got out of a 4 year relationship herself.

She has pretty much asked me to commit to her and I want to, I don't want to sleep with anyone else at the moment. But I am worried that it is too soon for both of us and that my new found singledom will be lost forever! I still think that a bit of single life is probably best for my mental health, but my heart seems to be saying otherwise!!!

What should I do? I am seeing her in a few weeks and I really don't want to lose her. But is it too soon?

Basically the question is, should I commit to not having sex with anyone else or not?

2007-01-16 03:37:08 · 10 answers · asked by jameso79 1 in Singles & Dating

does anyone have the last name liken.i am becky liken and from warrington.i know no people with this last name.if u wud be willin 2 tell me ur family tree as far bak as possible.we cud be related.u neva know.note;people who know they are related 2 me dont bother puttin anyfin ok?

2007-01-16 03:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by beccy 2 in Family

birthday on saturday ...they say life begins at 40 ...do i really have to wait for 5yrs...ive been single for 6 yrs now ...getting p..sed off with being single

2007-01-16 03:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 03:35:35 · 4 answers · asked by karen. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I cna't find the question now, it's lost in the shuffle. There was a question posted by a guy whose fantasy it is to watch two attractive people having sex. A few people answered that he should share his fantasy with his girlfriend and maybe she would fulfill it if she loves him. B.S.!!! It is NEVER proof of love for a girl to have sex with some other guy. Any boyfriend who tries to make his girl do one of his buddies is sick.

So I guess my question here is, does anyone think that it "proves" a girl loves her man if she has sex with some other guy while her boyfriend watches?

2007-01-16 03:35:29 · 16 answers · asked by loves2fly84095 4 in Singles & Dating

I like his sex but every time we do I have to help myself get the job done and I have been with him for 22years and I love him so much,he does all he can do But like I said I have to do the job,and he thinks he is.

2007-01-16 03:35:11 · 19 answers · asked by bette69 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in October and I need somewhere to get married. No churches, no outside wedding. Cincinnati/South eastern Indiana area, please. I am at my wits end! I have looked online and cannot find anything but places that are WAYYY too expensive! Thanks for all the help I can get!

2007-01-16 03:34:49 · 1 answers · asked by hevs55 2 in Weddings