I cna't find the question now, it's lost in the shuffle. There was a question posted by a guy whose fantasy it is to watch two attractive people having sex. A few people answered that he should share his fantasy with his girlfriend and maybe she would fulfill it if she loves him. B.S.!!! It is NEVER proof of love for a girl to have sex with some other guy. Any boyfriend who tries to make his girl do one of his buddies is sick.
So I guess my question here is, does anyone think that it "proves" a girl loves her man if she has sex with some other guy while her boyfriend watches?
2007-01-16 03:35:29 · 16 answers · asked by loves2fly84095 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It proves she is a skank.
2007-01-16 03:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the only thing that proves is that he is mental unstable, she has a very low self esteem, and the other dude (not the BF) is really really desperate!
No one should do anything for their partner that they are not completely comfortable with (Guys and Girls) and fantasy's are ok, but some of them just need to stay that way.
2007-01-16 11:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think "prove" is the right word. I never think anyone should use that guilt trip altimatum to get anything out of their partner. "you would if you love me" is B.S. manipulation.
though i would have to diagree with your statement about it being sick to want to see this. there are many healthy relationships out there where couples swap and enjoy watching their partner in action with another person.
I would agree that trying to guilt trip your girl into this is sick though.
Sex with another girl would prove her love though! Just kidding!
2007-01-16 11:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um. Hmm participation in fetishes should be mutual. However, saying that I do not want to imply that I am saying yes. There is no such thing as proof of love except mutual respect and compassion. That is about all I have to say.
2007-01-16 11:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think marriage proves love on both sides. And in that marriage, complete fidelity proves love. Not breaking every vow they've made to one another.
2007-01-16 11:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Raising6Ducklings! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to find that specific question, you can look in advanced search and type the key words of the question and that way you can look up the person who said that by the answers and you can click on her profile and etc
2007-01-16 11:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not at all. It only proves, she is willing to except another offer. It doesn't prove she loves him, because if she did she wouldnt want to fullfill this with another guy.
2007-01-16 11:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not proof. You are right that a girl shouldnt feel that if she loves her man, she should do this for him. It should never be like this.
2007-01-16 11:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is wrong i would not have sex with some other guy for my man that would make me think he doesnt love me if he wants me to go **** some ne else that shows no love and if a girl does that shes a hore and does not love her man
2007-01-16 11:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by juggalette~dopey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it just proves the realitionship is based on sex.
2007-01-16 11:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mindie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i forget the real name for this, but it's a psychological disorder caused by jealousy. some people get off to being jealous.
2007-01-16 11:38:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋