this guy that's in my unit at work werids me out sometimes. he comes and touches my hair, gets an inch close to me and tells me i smell good and says some cheesy pick up lines. sometimes i'm nice, other times a jerk. no matter what i say he doesn't stop. what should i do?
2007-01-16 03:40:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, don't waver ("sometimes I'm nice, other times a jerk") because you're giving him mixed signals. Be clear and tell him to STOP.
If this doesn't work after 2 or 3 more similar incidents, go talk to your supervisor. If his behavior gets WORSE, go talk to your supervisor immediately.
Good luck.
2007-01-16 03:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to management about this situation. I had a guy @ work doing that to me and others @ work. When I found out he was doing it to all the ladies I decided to speak up about it to management. He was told that it is sexual harrassment and will be fired if it continues. He stopped and we get along fine now. They should have to keep the complaint confidential so it does not cause more problems with both of you @ work. Good luck!
2007-01-16 11:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by flutter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the creep to knock it off or else you will tell your supervisor about it. If it continues, threathen a law suit against him. Sexual harrasment is no longer tolerated. Good luck.
2007-01-16 11:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to Human Resources for Sexual Harrassment .... or at least threaten to. If he doesn't stop, he loses his job. Simple!
2007-01-16 11:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by toyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight-that's well weird,he obviously likes you but hasn't got any experience with how we girls tick and the right way to go on
2007-01-16 11:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that this is a work place and you don't appreciate his actions. If that doesn't work, tell your supervisor. What he is doing could be considered sexual harrassment.
2007-01-16 11:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: Sexual harassment. Tell him if he continues touching you, you will report him.
2007-01-16 11:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the Human Resources department and tell them what you told us. They will speak with him
2007-01-16 11:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him on the grounds of sexual harassment.
2007-01-16 11:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a sexual harassment complaint.
2007-01-16 11:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋