My sister and her live in boyfriend have been having some trouble.She moved out for a few days to relax, and now things seem ok, but she's having second thoughts about her feelings for him. She has 2 small children and he has 1, and he doesn;t want to hurt any of them. I don't know what to tell her. I don't always give the best advise on guys and relationships, I've also had my doughts about relationships so I need to try and get some answers for her and myself. I hope you can help.
2007-01-16 03:47:13 · 10 answers · asked by ljg62905 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him.
2007-01-16 03:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer - either commit to marriage and stay "moved in" or don't move back in with anyone.
"She moved out for a few days to relax" - that's not an acceptable position. Feelings change and conflict is unavoidable, especially with kids. Bailing out when "things are not OK" or when "you don't care for him as much anymore" is no foundation for raising kids. No stability. Since there are 3 small fry involved, she needs to consider the adverse impact to them with this level of uncertainty.
2007-01-16 03:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, for the small children sake please tell your sister to be honest with herself first, than to be honest with that young man. Because the reason I'm saying this is because I'm going through a similar dilemma, myself but in my case there are no small children involve. Thank God!!!!!!
Keep in mind, feelings do change especially if they are not positive.
2007-01-16 04:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Gail S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just needs to be honest.
2007-01-16 03:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by retooser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just needs to be honest with him.â¥
2007-01-16 03:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to be honest with him.
2007-01-16 03:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him know. dont wait any longer
2007-01-16 03:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by karli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get caught sleeping with his bestfriend
2007-01-16 03:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Todd C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be direct, concise, and unemotional....then move on
2007-01-16 03:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by an_articulate_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they have nokids together, move on.
2007-01-16 03:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by tweakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋