Me and My Ex. (please help me out.)?

Question

So me and my gf. we have been dating for 16 months. we started before but it never relly got serious. the only problem is that she lives in Chicago and I live in St. louis. we met at a soccer tournament and we started talking and its gone from there. anyway at about the 9 month mark i cheated on her. with a girl here. i've never really had a serious relationship up to this point. and it really scared me. the bad thing is that i liked about it and she found out. anyway after about a week we worked it out and everything was fine. well about 5 days ago we got in a stupid fight about a misunderstanding. and we broke up and things were going better but then a girl told her a rumor abotu me that i cheated again. and she freaked out. after 2 days she was "seeing"someone. someone she promised me she never saw as more then a friend. and for 4 days ive tryed taking to her. she says she cant trust me to be with me but she want to be my friend. but we still gets mad when i dont say i love you when

we say good bye. and ive known her for a very long time. and i know that ive hurt her and that its hard to beleive me when ive hurt her before. but i can tell that she wants to. b/c we were talking abotu an open relationship and she told me she couldent b.c she couldnt stand me with other girls. and that it was better if she could be single. and she said that i can do w.e i want now. but i know if i do she will get mad and it will hurt her. and we wont even be friends. which she keeps saying she wants to be. and maybe then we can be something. but i can just tell by her tone when i say certan things that she still wants this. ive tyed everything ive had whitnesses. friends of the girl who told her the rumor. ive tryed pleeding and crying to her. and i do love her very much. and there wasnt any truth to the rumor that was said. i told this girl i was taken and that me and her couldnt be more then friends. i could neve rhurt her again. and now she wont beleive me. what do i do?

Answer 1

Sorry, but it's time to move on.