Okay, so my new boyfriend is hot, good-looking, sweet, gentle and is very caring. i love him and he loves me too.
But we have problems having sex. it seems like we both don't get so high because he doesn't have quite a big penis (kinda small). we try several position but it doesn't help enough. sometimes, we both hardly feel it. I don't blame him at all because the fact that i'm a single mom of one child. I gave birth before so mine isn't too tight as well. i know it.
What do i do?
But he makes me so wet all the time. no question about it
2007-01-16 03:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by Lavender 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pls don't ask me to dump him. i won't. i love him.
any good suggestions? like any positions?
2007-01-16 03:49:03 · update #1
I'm 25 and he's 23
2007-01-16 03:50:29 · update #2
I would recommend you try Kegel pelvic floor exercises. I was one with a woman who was a mother of three (all natural childbirths) and she had used this technique and was the tightest I have ever hard. It was quite incredible.
You can get more information at http://www.childbirth.org/articles/kegel.html
2007-01-16 03:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by thingfishy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keggle exercises!
The muscles down there are quite strong (as I am sure you know well enough having given birth before) but they need to be maintained and trained. So if you contract these muscles repeatedly during the day, and also when you are having sex, then you should both experience more pleasure. Other then that the only thing I can suggest is positions. Trying things were your legs are closer together it will make him feel bigger and hopefully give him more confidence.
I hope that helps!
2007-01-16 03:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do not have this problem as I have a very big stick and my gal Melrose has a tight kitty. I do think it may help both of you though if you try to incorporate a toy like a silver bullet. This type of DP will help fill you up and therefore give you more pleasure and the vibrating action will also increase the pleasure for him. Hope this helps so you can squirt all over him like my gal Melrose does for me!
2007-01-16 05:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cowgirl backwards! It works most of the time. And you could do it doggy! But the more you're in control of the sex the better it is for you! Plus you both need to stop thinking about how small or loose someone is....get if off your mind and relax, make it fun!
2007-01-16 03:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As for your parts excersise them. As for his parts a penis pump would help. I agree with you if you love him explore different options. Good luck
2007-01-16 03:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex and masturbating on each other as long as you feel satisfied. Might even have better orgasims. Hope that helps.
2007-01-16 03:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think yours is a fraudulent question.
Grow up!
2007-01-16 03:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋