I'd Been in the relationshp for over a year and then out of the blue she called it off. She gave me the classic line 'its not you'. I just can't stop thinking about it. I trying to move on. She still speaks to me like friends. How can I talk to her back when I still in love with her? I can't just cut her out of my life as she has been too important to me.
How long does it take to get over someone?
2007-01-16 03:09:42 · 10 answers · asked by andy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as cliche as it is it takes time. and it would probably be easier for you not to see her, as hard as that would be. hang out with other people. stay busy. and try not to think about it.
2007-01-16 03:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been to the same situation. Getting over someone may take 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months or even 3 yrs. All depends on how you manage. Face your problem! If she talks to you, just answer her. Act as if you're ok even when you're not. But be very vigilant of her ways and your emotions. Move with the flow. go on with what the situation will bring to you. Go out and date, date, and date. Sooner or later you'll find yourself totally forgetting her and no longer bitter.
My effective advise: find someone else (try a knew friend-girl)
all the best!
2007-01-16 11:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Kym 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. But if you were truly in love it takes a long time. There is no particular amount of time it's different for different people. It also depends on how you broke up. To me it seems like it will take you several months to completely heal.
I say cry you eyes out for one night only (everyone needs to get those cries out) then don't call her, go see her, talk about her, erase her from your phone, remove pictures and just keep yourself busy. If your alone you'll have no choice but to eventually think of her, but if your out with friends having fun, you wont think about her as much.
You'll know your over her when you realize that you havent thought about her in days. Because when your heart is broken you tend to think about the person who broke it alot. So when she's out of you mind, your over her.
2007-01-16 11:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take a while considering that you two still talk to each other. If you two did not have contact with each other, you may get over her faster. How long it takes depends on you. If you need to stay away from her for a while, let her know. Talk to her and tell her the truth. If she is really your friend, she'll understand what you have to do.
2007-01-16 11:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by foreveready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes a really long time to get over someone. The longer you're in a relationship, the longer it takes to get over her. Just give yourself more time. What I do is I think about all the bad stuff someone had put me thru and that helps me to get so angry at the person that I forget all about 'em.
2007-01-16 11:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but the best way is to cut ALL ties to her until you are over the split. It takes time - there is no set amount of time since it is different for everyone. Just take your time and do it one day at a tiime. It is always easier for the one that asks for the break to just be friends - don't give her that power.
2007-01-16 11:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man.. i had the same problem.. um.. theres no answer to how long u will get over the person.. u really never forget the person.. but u move on... dont cut her out of your life though..im sure youll find someone who will love you back.. but it will take time to find that person..
2007-01-16 11:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by ricantrukamami08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone want you.. the best way to get over her may be to stop talking to her and get on with your new life.. in time you will get over her.
2007-01-16 11:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mind occupied and don't think about her. Hang out with other friends or in a different crowd.
2007-01-16 11:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else
2007-01-16 11:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by tootytoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋