or venture out with people to have fun?
I don't mean sex. Dating going out doing things.
2007-01-16 02:56:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you married or is he just your boyfriend? If you're married, find a way to have fun together. If he's just your boyfriend... well, dating is a time to figure out if the person has everything you need to be happy or not. Obviously you need more than he has to offer, so move on. Love alone is not enough, the other pieces of the relationship have to be compatible too, if you want it to last.
2007-01-16 03:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! Would you really want to spend the rest of your life being bored? Sometimes love just isn't enough to keep people together. Try finding out what your partner likes and go and do that! If you're not married, just go out and have fun! Maybe your significant other will see what a blast you're having and want to join in! At least that way you can not only stay together for love, but also b/c you really enjoy spending quality time together!
2007-01-16 03:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by sweet libra 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i would venture out with people to have fun because its fun also to have love but if its boring than there really isnt no love am i right?
2007-01-16 08:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how deep your love for this person. It takes both party to make the relationship works. If you tried your very best to make the relationship works and the other is not trying, you could think twice about this love. The love is only one sided or the other just don't know how. Sometimes, its better to be loved than to love. In relationship, don't try to read mind. You have to be outspoken at times and learn to listen and observe! Key word 'understand and accepting'
2007-01-16 03:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Brokenpieces 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!
if you are in a boring relationship, dont try to blame it on his side, you can do something to spicy it up a little, break the rutine, your love for him should do that; you both can start doing something different together or go out more with your forgotten friends.
you dont need dating or do anything with any other guy; thats actually a little cheating, even if there is no sex, your significant other could be offended if you go out or flirt with someone else just because you are bored! I would and my finacee would as well!
2007-01-16 03:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by luisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're bored in the relationship, but the love is there, try to spice up the relationship by trying new places or introducing other things into the relationship.
2007-01-16 03:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage is boring it is up to you to make it adventurous..There was something about him to at least make you say I do.Remember your vows "FOR BETTER OR WORSE"that also includes boredom(smile)good luck try just doing fun things with him going to the park for a walk watching a movie with popcorn hey there are many things you can enhance your marriage don't let boredom ruin you/marriage.,,
2007-01-16 03:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you suggest things that you think are fun? Anything new to spice up you relationship. Love is hard to find. Id hate to see you getting your feelings hurt by someone else who is "fun" but doesnt give a damn about you....
2007-01-16 03:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by SheSoFly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh, the end justifies the means. guys date to have sex, not to go do things, they can do that with their boys! stay in in your boring relationship till you get a clue...
2007-01-16 03:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely go out and do things. Have fun, party, drink Beer, get high...life is short you only live once.
2007-01-16 02:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋