can't an indian gay live as he wants?
2007-01-16 02:30:13 · 8 answers · asked by Francés 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let him get married you can still continue your relationship with him if he is interested & want to have gay relationship with you....!!!!
2007-01-17 17:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the cultural thing about prejudice against gays. However I'm assuming he probably didn't even tell his parents about him being gay and about you. Usually for indian children, what parents say or think has a lot of emphasis on how they grow up and how they behave. Even if being gay is your lover's sexual orientation, for parents' sakes he could go and marry a wife.
Also because the society and how they think also plays a huge role in a family, his parents might want him to be straight and be "normal" by marrying girl. Because of the pressure from his parents and society, he could find a wife too and marry her.
However, since he's gay I think he might not be able to satisfy himself or his wife in marriage and it will end up becoming a failed marriage unless he doesn't want it that way.
Did he break up with you already over it? Or is he going to continue your relationship even after marriage? Talk with him about it. After marriage, it not only will be about you two but also will be about the innocent wife too who did nothing wrong to deserve a marriage with a sexually-unsatisfied man. So it is definitely better to clear up before marriage.
Good luck!
2007-01-16 12:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lunais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely isn't so. Probably we might see a case here and a case there and mostly in some traditional communities deep inside India. But these days, most educated, cosmopolitan Indians do manage to have their way. Even in arranged marriages, the couple are given an opportunity to meet and get to know each other before they have to give their consent. I'd be very surprised if he's facing what he says he is.
2007-01-16 10:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEE AFTER ACHIEVING CERTAIN AGE THAT BETWEEN 20 TO 30 YEARS A MAN MUST GET MARRIAGE. IT IS ROLE OF OUR SOCIETY AND PARENTS REMAIN WORRY IF SOMEONE NOT MARRIED IN THIS AGE. IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM WHY NOT YOU MARRY HIM AND SATISFY THE PARENTS OF HIM.
2007-01-18 06:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he native indian to this land or india indian?if he is native here and pure and you are not..don't marry him.
2007-01-17 01:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by N C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he can live as he wants.... he just can't choose the consequences of doing so.
2007-01-16 10:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a wig.
2007-01-16 10:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-17 03:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋