And I am 27. I am Chinese and he is British. He is married and have kids. I am single but attached. He is leaving in a few days' time and I dont know when I will see him again. Most probably, wont see him again. Not sure if he is interested in me. I am feeling upset now. What should I do?
2007-01-16 03:09:49 · 24 answers · asked by just a girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is 50 years old, married, and worse he is just "passing by". Now he is going back to his country, his family, his wife at UK. Do you think he will stay because of you? Right from the start, this relationship shouldn't have started. He is just making use of you to kill his loneliness at foreign place. No one will pity you, take it a lesson learned.
2007-01-16 14:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although age is not an issue going past what is too old and too young is the key to figuring out what to do then, You said he is married and has kids and you like him, doesn't the word"marriage" tell you anything and the fact he has kids, I am sure reguardless of where he is from, don't you think that this could be the starting of an affair, and you really don't want to get too caught up in this, suppose word gets back to his wife he dearly loves in Britain that he is seeing you. What do you plan to do and say. Maybe it is best when he leaves and never comes back that you continue and what you are doing and leave him alone, and you still have your life ahead of you. Just make sure you are prepared for whatever happens and what he says if you want to know if he is interested.
2007-01-16 11:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You should probably stop being a little whorebag.. honestly.. he is married.. you are attached.. why the hell are you even meeting and flirting with other men???
Have you not heard of fidelity.. why do you think the planet is going to pieces.. furthermore.. miss hooch.. try have some consideration for his children.. who will most likely not appreciate growing up in a divorced family environment.. because the ol man got his rocks off with some bimbo (you seem like a bimbo)..who was a little fantasy fetish thing for a few months.. because you'll never be more than that to him..
Now stop being a ****.. and learn to be a decent human being.. with integrity and a sense of morality..
2007-01-16 11:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, give yourself a pat on the back for me with much thanks. I'm 50 and you have shown me that there is a chance there is someone out there that could me mine. Oh and I do love Chinese women. I had a girl working for me from Shanghai for three years and I thought she was wonderful but she was already dating a guy and I don't take other guy's girlfriends but she was smart, very smart and in my business I used her knowledge and abilities.
Anyway back to you, I'm sorry that he's going to be leaving and I know you're depressed but you will get over him. You need to get out there and start dating ASAP. It the one quickest way to get over someone that I know of.
2007-01-16 12:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey the guy is taken like u said he is leaving and u have no idea if he is coming back. u said u r in love with him, but the question is " is he in love with u? how does he feel about u? if u r not sure ask him before he leaves at least u will know where u stand.
2007-01-16 11:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is married. Let him go. If he is still interested in you,he must contact you by all means.Move on and look for another guy that fits for you. A lot of good guys only arounds YOU!
2007-01-16 11:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by speedmaztyr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. You have your whole life ahead of you and you don't want to be connected to a married man who already has kids. He will be responsible for child support and maybe spousal support. His ex will always be in your lives.
2007-01-16 11:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont think hes interested then you need to get over him....you are too old to play games and you need to find somebody that wants you for you! and being with him doesnt sound like he makes you happy.
2007-01-16 11:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda freaky to b honest maybe its best to just forget if hes married and has kids and u are "attached" its just the best u can do for the both of u
2007-01-16 11:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by tessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like the oppisite couples on Maury.
2007-01-16 11:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by scottsmith20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋