Ive been chatting with this guy now for 5 months,
we really enjoy each others company.
We only have a noramal sweet conversation.
But theres this one thing, that he wants to meet me badly,
he lives in the same country i do.
But he said his gone out with 60 girls and maybe more he said!!
Not sure if he even slept with each one of them!
So i told him ''am i ur 61'',he said ''u said it''!!
So when he asked me that he wants to meet me,
i said no coz of that reason,he found it stupid and
pathetic.
He said that he's a guy and i cant blame him!!!
im a pure innocent girl dont know if i can handle a guy like that!
I wont meet him.But just want ur advice in that!
2007-01-16 03:18:49 · 21 answers · asked by Pinky 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you enjoy the conversations with him and are a bit intrigued by him. He must have a lot of charm to have been with that many women. You really need the experience. For a 20 yo woman, you are very naive. Hope you learn something from him.
2007-01-16 03:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by rilindy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i ever started chating with a guy online i would never make it serious because you dont know him!!! it would just be for the fun of it or something!! the thing is...he could be lieing to you and you dont know if he is someone that will abuse you or could hurt your feelings. i new someone that was adicted to chatting with someone that they didnt know on the computer( i mean that they chatted almost every day all day) and he wanted to meet her and when they agreed on where to go they met up about two weeks later and she got rapped by him. shes ok now because she got away but she was very lucky!! im not trying to scare you if i did but its the truth and i think that meeting up with him is a very bad idea!!! plus if he has been with 60 women then he is probably a player or just using you for certin resons!! but what ever you choose is your dicision not mine
so... good luck!!
2007-01-16 03:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by mandymandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a saying, a guy says he sleep with 10 women, reality, he only slept with 2. I think he is just boasting about his ability. Tell him that you met some online people too and watch his reaction. If you decide to meet him, only do it at a public place.
2007-01-16 03:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by EggsarefromChicken 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this difference is quite bother some to you, and it will continue bothering you. It looks like he is very active, and has brother had sex with many of them.
This is going to eat at you. 60 Dates shoes that he isn't committed anyways, and his trust is questionable.
I think he is stupid and pathetic if he can't understand why you wouldn't want to meet him. You should find someone more reliable, closer, and less disgusting. You are much better than him
2007-01-16 03:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dave ! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that, your not pathetic, you just have morals, if you decide to meet him and get involved be prepared for a rocky road. Seems he cant commit to anyone, whats going to make you any different to him?? Keep looking, there are men out there not like that and want a serious relationship with you.
2007-01-16 03:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by P_a94 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be surprised if he is not only lying to you about 61 or whatever but he is likely also lying to you about his age and other things.
2007-01-16 03:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't meet him. Tell him you like chatting with him as friends but that you aren't looking for anything more.
2007-01-16 03:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
advice about what? apparently you care somewhat about him or you wouldn't be asking this question or whatever this is...n e way 60 girls for one guy isn't that bad even if he has slept with them i know a lot more guys that have been with more than that a lie about it , at least he is telling you the truth
2007-01-16 03:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by texas_krystle_23 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You're pure and innocent? About as much so as mud covered snow.
2007-01-16 03:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋