Someone told me "You are whole by yourself, even if you don't know it yet . You are already whole, you are complete . You were formed, created that way . You are strong and whole and have love inside you . You are loved and you are BELOVED simply because you are . Love is not only a breath away, but it is the breath inside you ." How do I learn to feel wholw by myself ? How do I learn to feel the love inside me ?
2007-01-16 03:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by Sad and Single 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember this above all else....you and only you can truly keep your self happy, after all there are many things in this world that "make" us happy but very few that keep us that way.
You are the center of your world, the hub and every thing and every one are just spokes.
hope you find yor self.....befor it's to late.
2007-01-16 03:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by patrick73463 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey. This is what worked for me.
1. Get rid of that little voice that tells you all the nasty things about yourself ie too fat no one likes you etc. You know. What you do is listen to it the next time and just say as if talking to some one I hear you but I don't agree so Bugger off f... off what ever works for you. You'll have to do this a few times but it will work pretty quickly . Then you'll have power over yourself.
2. Learn to meditate, do Yoga or Tai chi or Che Gung. Take classes if you need confidence in the methods. Listen to music that helps your mind become peaceful. In doing this it allows the Angels, guardians to help you . Once you have confidence and don't feel silly etc. Just ask them for help with your situations that are bothering you. But don't tell them how to fix it , they know already. Thank them for all of your daily blessings ie food shelter friends family etc. You'll get little positive messages via feelings back from that too .
3/ Pamper yourself as if you were your best friend and the person you always want to be with. Give yourself hugs he! he! alone if you like.
Giving to others something that's precious to you. It doesn't have to always be money,ie; your time volunteer, a smile, talk to a neighbour, just for no reason ,especially if they are elderly and alone. That kindness brings you great joy and by doing so. Not only does Karma reward you , but you become whole by yourself. It's so wonderful a feeling when you feel that joy and just know all is well in your world.
Good Luck ciao
2007-01-16 11:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be proud of your accomplishments. Do something amazing or new so you can have things to be proud of. You know what people find attractive? Confidence, people who know who they are and are not scared of the world. It is sexy. Your name is "Sad and Single", how depressing is that? If you want to find love, you need to make some changes to make yourself "Happy and Single". Be positive, don't put yourself down, get active and get in shape if you aren't already, this will boost your confidence and make you feel so good. Join a sport, team, or club of some sort to meet new people, join a gym.
2007-01-16 11:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by hello 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that you have your very own gifts that are worth something and that you are great on your own without anyone. You need to be happy with yourself, be content with the things you don't like about yourself, because even though you hate them, they make you who you are. Take pleasure in flirting and dating, and learn to have fun with someone else without expecting anything from them. And realize what you want out of life, and what you want from someone else. Knowing who you are will make you more confident whether you're in a relationship or not.
2007-01-16 11:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Meghan M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to love yourself first. You can't love anyone else unless you love yourself first. It's hard but I"ve had to learn to feel whole by myself at times. If you'd trust in God he'd help you and give you strength.
2007-01-16 11:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be happy with who you are. Learn to be happy with the things you cannot change. Find out who your true friends are, and learn to be happy with them.
2007-01-16 11:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey if u ask me u do need that one other love so u always know that, that person will b there for u and always love u i believe that u need that one person in ur life
2007-01-16 11:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by tessa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to love yourself FIRST.. Once you do, then it will all come naturally.
2007-01-16 11:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋