one indian guy i met on internet 8 years ago residing in dubai,i have visited him numerous times.which was long journeys from here in uk.he tells me he loves me all the time and wants to marry me my last visit in dec 06 he got his first 6 month visit visa to come see me.I even bought hes flight tickets to come to uk.he keeps promising me he will divorce his wife has he no longer loves her,but he keeps stalling saying he doesnt know how to divorce hes wife and get it done legally so he is free to marry me in uk,he is muslim can anyone help or his he a born liar xx
2007-01-16 03:20:11 · 33 answers · asked by guestxxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he just wants to get out his country and you are his ticket out muslim dont believe in divorce****
2007-01-16 03:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You met him on the internet.
He lives a long distance from you.
It's expensive for you to visit him.
He says he wants to visit you but you had to buy his tickets.
He's married.
He claims he doesn't know how to get divorced legally? Give me a break, that isn't private information! In the 8 years you've been together he could have unearthed something on the subject... if he truly was interested in a divorce
Everything about this is screaming WRONG! Dump him as soon as possible and move on. Only then will you meet someone RIGHT.
Moral of the story - Never date a married man. It isn't worth the hassle!
2007-01-16 03:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is most definitely using you, but don’t you think you deserve to be used? Why are you making yourself look like a saint here? Are there no decent men in the UK that you had to run after a married man all the way to Dubai? Worse still is the fact that you have not figured this out even after eight years. Honey, how can you be so stupid? I really don’t know whether to cry for you or laugh at you. For God’s sake get rid of him immediately.
2007-01-16 08:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety this is to increase ur GK muslim never needs divorce to marry another woman from his first wife as they are allowed to do as many marriages in their religion. He is fooling u by saying that he cant divorce. Muslim are the only community who can divorce or do marriages very conveniently. A muslim can have 4 wives minimum at a time. Kick his a*** and leave him.
2007-01-16 17:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all cyber dating works only some time for some ppl, 2ndly u should never date a married man, 3rdly u r the biggest fool 2 fall 4 this kinda man & lastly how can u even think of breakin one's home? do u hav ne idea how much heavily u r costing not just 2 urself but 2 his wife? this guy is a bloody ******E n u kno that urself. wake up! reality check missy-- he is just merely using u n Love doesn't mean ne damn thing 2 him. just 4get abt this guy, doesn't matter whether he's a hindu or muslim the only thing matters is he is MARRIED, that's all. if u really r a grown up then start behaving like one now!
2007-01-16 07:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married man?? You're buying his ticket? He makes promises he does not keep. He doesn't know how to divorce ????? Honey, if you are believing all this crap, I have several oil wells here in Texas I can sell you real cheap. Yes, of course he is a liar!! get your head out of the clouds and come back to earth.
2007-01-16 03:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
should steer clear of all married men, if he would cheat with u he would cheat against u, he simply isn't interested in marrying u, if he can get it free, without any commitment. and never believe what he says about his wife, if he truly wanted to be with u he would be there, nothing could stop him, he is playing u girlfriend, just using u. get a real man, that can give u what u want and need in a relationship. he is just wasting your life, dangling the carrot out in front of your nose, making false promises, but u never get the carrot do u, he keeps it far in the distance.
2007-01-16 03:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that he's not Indian if he's a muslim. More than likely Pakistani. Indians are Sikhs or Hindu etc. Unless you yourself are muslim, run run run! I lived in an arab country for 15 years. Muslim men view western women as whores. Flat out. You are nothing but a toy to him. Trust me on this. His religion dictates it so. I remember that every time I left the middle east for vacation with my family in America, the muslim men would drink (which islam forbids) as soon as we were in international airspace. I remember seeing them with western women in hotels even though they were married. You are nothing to him. Just a means to his satisfaction. To think otherwise is naive.
2007-01-16 03:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lilith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy do you have lots of patience. Would you really want someone who cheats on his wife and doesn't be truthful. If you did marry him, would he do the same to you?Trust and a loving relationship is what you should strive for.Don't settle for anything less.Time is passing you by.Say goodbye,then move on, you deserve better.I wish you all the very best.
2007-01-16 03:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by chilly bean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know hes lied, to his wife. You even know hes lied to you. He doesn't know how to divorce his wife??? No lawyers in Dubai? No imams to tell him to say I divorce you three times?
A divorce anywhere in the world leaves you free to marry again anywhere in the world. Only church problems arise, but legal problems won't.
You figure it out, and then find someone who cares.
2007-01-16 03:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you're being fooled! indians are desperate lol especially ones in dubai. if you like, you could threaten to leave him if he doesn't divorce. if he has kids that's a little messy.. but don't you feel GUILTY for dating him even though he has a wife? do you think if you ended up with him that he would be sincere or would he meet someone else from the net? ;)
2007-01-16 03:26:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋