I really enjoy being passionate, engage in a conversation, share a few laughs together, try and be romantic before making love. Kissing to me, creates a special bonding and arousal between two. To take the time, to not rush, to mix in a variety each time, to be a bit spontaneous, a little unpredictable as well from time to time, and contstantly making eye-contact is valuable. To create a mood, arouse her, and do everything that'll put a satisfying smile on her face is orgasmic for me. For me, foreplay and afterplay is as important as the love making itself. I've been told I'm too old-fashioned or crazy. I'd like to know if some of you would agree with my idea of intimacy?
2007-01-16 03:15:12 · 26 answers · asked by houstonian352000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that is exactly what i like****
2007-01-16 03:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly agree with the way that you feel and I wish I had a man to do that for me. Foreplay and afterplay is really important for those that are really into each other. Those that do not believe in it are there to get them and then they are out finished there is no intimacy it is just straight sex for them. You are not old fashioned at all you are a real love maker. I hope you find that one that really appreciates and enjoys your lovemaking, foreplay and afterplay. Happy lovemaking!
2007-01-16 11:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you certainly are NOT crazy young man.. I think your ideas on Intimacy is right on target!! do not change your ideas of what you think should be done before the actual act of love making...
There are alot more women out there then you think that absolutely LOVE those old fashioned views on intimacy..
confidentialy ... alot of us actualy live for the day that we can find a man with such an understanding that intimacy is more than just sex itself.. ;)
2007-01-16 11:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mouseling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are on target, I think women aren't into recognizing their own desires for these things, our culture puts so much emphasis on the male point of view, that women are conditioned to think that that's the only point of view. The desire is for women to enjoy a level of personal intimacy before physical intimacy is derided as useless and so they think it is, and then don't understand why men call them 'hos. You may be old-fashioned, but you have excellent standard and you need to find a woman who is happy to have you treat her like a woman and not like a video-ho.
2007-01-16 11:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by justa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my husband! He feels the same way and if that makes him old-fashioned then so be it! We've been married 20 years and our love life is still amazing!
You have exactly stated what most women want and need to enjoy a happy love liife.
2007-01-16 11:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More man should think that way about intimacy, being passionate and romantic is what woman want and like for a man to do :)
2007-01-16 14:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by strong and beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you, and have already had a few 'friends'. The sex is always nice, but intimacy can mean alot more than sex. If you find someone you are happy just holding and kissing, sex does not need to get in the way.
2007-01-16 11:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You go booy!1 Your a rare breed and most women (like me) would LOVE to meet you. Do not change your ways because of what others think. Diff strokes for diff folks.
2007-01-16 11:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Grief, where do I find one of these guys?! There should be more like you out there! At least there would be less ' my partner won't have sex with me' questions. lol. Not to mention, I'd be a lot happier. haha.
2007-01-16 11:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by Therese 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you! So what if someone says it is old fashioned as long as it wasnt your partner. If you are both happy why worry.
2007-01-16 11:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And while you're wasting your time doing that I'm taking a shower and preparing for the next one that's due to arrive in 15 minutes. Whatever works for you homey.
2007-01-16 11:20:35 · answer #11 · answered by Red Winged Bandit 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋