Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

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2007-01-16 08:24:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-16 08:24:37 · 12 answers · asked by RED WHITE AND BLUE 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i was seeing this guy for 5 months and had a crush on him for over a year prior to us seeing each other. he has no kids I have 3. we are the same age. we had a great realtionship except that I always felt like I didn't measure up cause he wanted a family but one that he started. yet he and I got along so well... lately he has withdrawn from me at a time when I'm going through a lot. I have not placed pressure on him but he all of a sudden doesn't want to be bothered. It really hurt. I really care about him

2007-01-16 08:24:29 · 27 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Singles & Dating

What do I do? My fiance and I are to get married next January 2008 and the guy i messed around with is so sweet and he is the total opposite of my fiance, Im with my fiance for alot of diffrent reasons and with this guy, he's a really nice guy, sweet smile, and he is not in it for sex.. he makes me feel right sentimentally...this guy just found out about my fiance and wants me to decide? What do I do????

2007-01-16 08:24:22 · 29 answers · asked by marti 1 in Singles & Dating

I married a man earlier this year that I lived with for a few years. We were in love & had a good relationship. Financially, however- he drained me of every penny- and caused me rack up some serious debt because he didn't want to work. Sometimes he me treated poorly and didn't help me in the right ways. Needless to say, we decided to end our marriage amicably this past Fall. My best friend happens to be male and I have known him since before I met my husband. He is wonderful person- who has made it clear he would do anything for me. Naturally when my husband realized his inadequecies and saw my bf wanting me he became very jealous of our friendship & started accusing me of adultery(which is not the scenario). Since some time has passed & I have been spending more time with my bf I have realized that I am in fact in love with him- and he is in love with me. He is the perfect person for me- but I feel horrible. I am not an adulterer. I still love my husband- but I love my bf. What now?

2007-01-16 08:24:04 · 11 answers · asked by loveguppy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i get together with a guy i get this BAD feeling in my gut-stomach. it tells me to break upwith the guy i'm with. this feeling overposwers my brain. i have no idea why this is happening, but it's real! i know, it sounds stupid, but, what's wrong with me!! i really need help, it's messing a part of my life.

so, if someone gets bad-nausus-sick feeling in their stomach, or gut. w/e. what does it mean?!! it makes me break up with who i am with. like i said, it overpowers whatever my brain thinks. ugh. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?

2007-01-16 08:23:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was with a girls for one week we where in love, but now we are live ocean apart, and i don't trust myself or her..

2007-01-16 08:23:21 · 9 answers · asked by andrewjumar 1 in Singles & Dating

Just a curious question that I have been wonering about?

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2007-01-16 08:22:47 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to go to a local college the classes are once a week 6pm-10pm, i want to go for Criminal Justice. He dose'nt want me to go and i'm not sure why. But now he's mad at me and wont answer my calls. I dont know what to do about this.

2007-01-16 08:22:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf is single and gorgeous. But everytime she meets a guy she expects him to sweep her off her feet. It's like she keeps a score of who does what. If he askes her out she asks him out next and if he doesn't return with something she drops him. I'm not saying she doesn't deserve it but she cancels these guys out the first time they mess up and she wonders why she's not married. She is really set in this mind set and I don't know what to tell her when she asks me how come shes not married. Is it better for me not to say anything and help her live out this fantasy of prince charming? Or tell her what I think?

2007-01-16 08:21:48 · 11 answers · asked by fabulosity 2 in Singles & Dating

Broken up and promises to change
is there hope for us yet?

2007-01-16 08:21:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is driving me crazy saying I dont call her...

2007-01-16 08:20:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay this guy likes me but i got braces on yesterday so i dont think he will like me any more b\cuz i will have an ugly smile cuz of the stupid braces!!!! but in ur opinion what do u think?

2007-01-16 08:19:56 · 21 answers · asked by Jordannnn 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends are mostly guys and my boyfriends friends. The problem is that they start to like me if i hang out with them. Then my boyfriend gets parinoid over nothing. And i cant not hang with them b/c that would mean ovoiding my b/f all together. I do tell the guys i dont like them like that so that not the answer. I need solid advice. HELP!

2007-01-16 08:19:18 · 26 answers · asked by newman12992 1 in Singles & Dating

Ahh I'm getting fustrated.. I'm a pretty good looking guy (or so Im told) but every one seems to be taken, and i never seem to be able to say the right thing. Help, advice? Im 17 male, athletic build, preppy... so fustrated.

2007-01-16 08:18:45 · 11 answers · asked by Mike89 2 in Singles & Dating

So many people become some one else's rock, but in the process we forget that we may also need a rock, but because we are strong for every one else, they expect nothing less than what we always give..... but the question is for who are you a rock ?.....I am a rock for my close friend.... did they chose you to become their rock?

2007-01-16 08:18:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i try all the time to act nice to the ***** i have to call my sister. she is 2 yrs. younger than me, and she thinks she runs the show. when ever i ask her to do something nicely, she ignores me. she only listens to my older sis. i try so hard to be nice to her, but she just won't be nice back. when i tell my mom, she ignores me or tells me i'm to blame! what can i do?? HELP!!!

2007-01-16 08:18:34 · 2 answers · asked by maya b 2 in Family

2007-01-16 08:18:12 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

how can you make it more interestin?

2007-01-16 08:17:36 · 16 answers · asked by minifall 1 in Singles & Dating

i try to take care of myself, i wouldnt consider myself ugly, although im not exactly a gorgeous guy. i am fairly smart. whats going wrong? btw, im 18 and a senior in high school. any suggestions for dealing with my loneliness?

2007-01-16 08:16:39 · 23 answers · asked by double0agent2002 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 08:16:16 · 10 answers · asked by SexiTash 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 08:16:09 · 6 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been smoking marijuana ever before he had the car accidents that cause his severe back pain. He claims that he also smokes due to his "bipolar" symptoms (short temper, depression, etc). I have analyzed his behavior and when he is off marijuana he seems to be more outgoing, confident, funny, and straight-headed. However he doesn't agree and cannot seem to let go of the marijuana. I on the other hand have made lifestyle changes. I have chosen to lead a healthier lifestyle and quit smoking. But when with him I cannot seem to fight the urge and comeback to the same old routine (smoke, eat, sex, sleep, etc). I ask him to respect the fact that I don't want to smoke, and he does temporarly but for the most part he doesn't. I also have a lot of communication issues with him and I truly believe that is due to the same reason - marijuana. Can this work??? And if so, how???

2007-01-16 08:16:04 · 21 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the 26 year old, a girl. I used to baby-sit the 14 year old. I met her the day she came home from the hospital. Now that she's older, we're friends. Our families are close. She's like a little sister to me, but we're also good friends.

We're talking about taking a road trip out east for about a week. She really wants to do this and so do I. We're going to talk to her parents more about it later this week. At first her parents didn't seem to like the idea that much, but now her mom was saying she probably can, she just has to pay for it all herself, which she knows.

So I'm just curious how many people would let this happen? You've got to remember, you've known the 26 year old for most of her life. I spent a lot of time baby-sitting her. Even when I wasn't baby-sitting, I spent a lot of time over there. Her mom is like a second mom to me.

2007-01-16 08:16:00 · 11 answers · asked by Tammy 2 in Friends

Hi, my boyf got so upset over something really little the other day including my mate who is a boy, and a webpage, where I merely asked how he (my mate) was doing. This was in a non-flirtacious way. Upon seeing the message, he shoved me on to the floor and threw whatever he could at me. I thought he was being rediculas, so I started laughing. I couldnt help it.

Next thing he grabs my bags and shoves them out of his appartment door and grabs my hair and does the same to me. I was like what do I do.

It was only a stupid comment that was meant to be chatty. It wasnt intended to be flirty etc. So I grabbed my bags and drove to the supermarket, where he follwed me and we talked, and I stupidly ended up staying with him.

Is this abuse? Im really stressed due to university work at the moment, and I dont think I can cope with everything. I think it started to affect me becuase I think about it 24/7 and I think about the lack of self respect I have for myself...

Please help

2007-01-16 08:15:25 · 45 answers · asked by lozziebach 1 in Friends

The situation is that *somebody's* wife has been busted cheating like 2-3 times talking on the internet with guys and having web/phone sex but insists that it is innocent because she loves her husband and he should know that she would *never* meet any of these guys it is just for fun. She got busted the first time and swore off of it. A year later the husband sees an e-mail sent to an old flame that is suspicious. He further investigates and she hasn't stopped but only created a new e-mail address to have the mail sent to. She says that his mistrust is forcing her to do it while for a year he hadn't mentioned it once. After getting busted twice and caught in about 15 lies the husband discovers that she has actually called the guy and professes to "care" about him but does not love him. The wife demands to be trusted or the relationship cannot work THE SAME DAY and demands to have total privacy of her e-mail box and intenet time. The husband is thinking of throwing her out at the curb.

2007-01-16 08:15:14 · 20 answers · asked by Magnus01 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Apart from telling her shes not?

2007-01-16 08:14:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is a cathlic and im a christain, and well we both found out today and now im worried he wont like me. but he seemed just fine when i told him that. is it ok for cathlics and christains to date?? please im worried now bc i really love him. i dont care for religon,race,or looks i go for there personality. and he has a great one. but how can i let him know i love him no matter what religon he is. please help. im so upset i want to cry right now. THANK YOU ALL SO VEY MUCH it means alot to me.

2007-01-16 08:14:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wedding was in June we gave him pictures/songs late august..Keeps telling us couple more weeks...now he says he still has a ways to go lol... Do i have a right to be upset? or does process take this long? Thanks..

2007-01-16 08:14:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok i have this guy i like him alot but as a friend only but if i continue the relationship then im gonna break his heart how can i break up with him and let him down easy

2007-01-16 08:14:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating