Just a curious question that I have been wonering about?
I wrote a blog dedicated to Cheating On Your Girlfriend and Not Getting Caught, If you are curious read up:
http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgir...
2007-01-16 08:22:47 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is the right link to my blog:
http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend
2007-01-16 09:15:06 · update #1
No, how could it be? And you're link is dead.
2007-01-16 08:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threesome... my girlfriend (at the time), her best friend and myself. We hung out together so much that the three of us kinda became a couple without knowing it. It was great because we knew each other very well so we had a lot of fun with it. We never considered it cheating and never once argued about it. It was consensual.
2007-01-16 08:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by Leohades 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all if you're going to cheat why even have a girlfriend? it's soooo disrespectful. you are putting her at risk and she doesn't know it. that's the most disrespectful thing you can do. when i found out my husband cheated i felt dirty and disgusting just knowing he had went and been with someone else then came and laid down with me. not to mention it completely pissed me off because if he wanted to put himself at risk that's fine but he put me and our unborn baby at risk too. and the excuse 'well we used condoms' isn't a good one cause they are only 85% effective against everything not just pregnancy. now on to the whether or not it's cheating having a threesome with her involved, yes and no. it's cheating but probably not in her eyes. you're still with someone else she just happens to also be with the person. at least it's not as dirty and disrespectful as going behind her back.
2007-01-16 08:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your personal belief. In soome cultures, having many wives/girlsfreinds is not only acceptable, but encouraged. Sometimes, a man's social class is determined by the number of wives he has. In our culture, it wouldn't be cosidered cheating if all the people know what's going on but, Good Luck finding a girl willing to share her boyfreind/husband with another girl and visa versa.
2007-01-16 08:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by *KK* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't calling it cheating if she's involved. However, don't underestimate what a woman can end up feeling. My ex and I started this one night and the hype was nothing but hype. When I saw him kissing another woman there was nothing exciting about. I was jealous, sad, and felt betrayed. I couldn't call it cheating since I let it happen, but it didn't go any further (I stopped it) and from that point on, every time I saw him with this girl I wondered if he was cheating on me.
2007-01-16 08:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating implies exclusiveness. If you already have an arrangement whereby you are allowed to have sex with other people (and a threesome is an example of such an arrangement, albeit a temporary one), then there's no cheating.
2007-01-16 08:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lee Harvey Wallbanger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where do you guys find these women? I would give my left nut to have a girlfriend or a wife who would be willing to have a threesome!
Consider yourself very very lucky, and NO, it's not cheating if she knows and approves.
G.
2007-01-16 08:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not cheating it's "making new friends". Just remember that when she invites a guy with a much bigger unit than yours over for a threesome it's still "making new friends"
2007-01-16 08:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl in their right mind would even consider sharing her boyfriend with another girl! I guess if the relationship isn't serious and it's all about the sex then I would say it's up to your girl and your own intuition. I would deffinately consider it cheating.
2007-01-16 08:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by aluminum22rocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviosly you are cheating or else you would have never written that blog, cheating begins in your head first you know. i mean if you feel like you HAVE to include your gf in this threesome but you don't want to then yeah that is pretty close to cheating in my opinion.
2007-01-16 08:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ... according to statistics premarital sex messes up a relationships .. it is also wrong in God's eyes.
To answer your question .. it is wrong because the bible says even if you think about someone inmoraly it is just like doing it. Therefor God will hold it against you.
2007-01-16 08:28:12 · answer #11 · answered by talent4god 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋