Apart from telling her shes not?
2007-01-16 08:14:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe your girlfriends been through some tough relationships in the past, there are lots of girls who cannot accept compliments or refuse to admit they do. Yet you shouldn't stop trying to tell her she's pretty, as this may make her think you do not like her anymore and cause unwanted arguements. If you want to do something romantic, try and make her feel like a princess but make sure it has nothing to do with her looks as she may take it the wrong way. Take her to places where theres loads of people and tell her that nothing can compare to her in anyway.
2007-01-16 08:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by ForbiddenParadise_xo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-if she was ugly then why would u be with her? tell her to think about that.
-write her a poem about how much she means to u.
-sing her a song that xplains ur love 4 her.
-tell her how u can't imagine ur self w/ out her.
-throw a suprise bash 4 her.
-send her a letter in the mail (its a letter not an email)
-send her flowers/candy
-go on a picnic (in the park or beach or someplace with like a pond/waterfall and pretty flowers, and u can feed the ducks too lol)
*spend some real quality time with her to let her know that she is uniquely special and beautiful*
hope these help!
good luck! :~)
2007-01-16 16:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by ~002~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could either be feeling very insecure as a person OR be suffering from the disorder which distorts a person's self image. They end up thinking that they are ugly or in extreme cases, repulsive......it's worth bearing the latter in mind...
It could also be a possibility that your girlfriend may have had negative comments about her appearance in the past and it has affected her self-esteem now.................
reassurance from you, maybe suggest counselling (or touch upon the idea and see what reaction you get). Compliment her when you can. Not just on he looks but clothes, make-up etc...recognise when she has made an effort...............
2007-01-16 16:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all DONT say anything about inner beauty unless you also express how physically attractive she is, if you do its the same as saying she is ugly (its a girl thing we know were good people, we just question the outside more often than not.). when you're in public put your arm around her, hold hands this makes her feel that you're proud to be with her and tell her how proud you are to be with someone as gorgeous as she is and that you love knowing she is yours and all other guys jealous because they cant be so lucky.
2007-01-16 16:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by screamosweetie12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what?the reason why i think your girl friend thinks she is ugly is because, may be you are not caring and loving as she expects you to be,may be you chart with other girls allot or something like that and she is a kind of being jealous or something like that,so when she looks at her self in a mirror she thinks she not beautiful enough for you,and one thing you have to know about we women is that we are jealous allot especially when it comes to do with something about love.So what i think is that telling her something that is romantic will not solve the problem,but loving,caring for her,and always being there for her whenever she needed you most, showing her that you truly love her,if you really do.Not because of her beauty but because you truly love her of which you cannot explain.All these will show her that you truly love her and then she will come to appreciate you and come to realise it that she is beautiful.Cuz we women think that it is our beauty that attracts men to us and our beauty makes men to treat us like a queen,which are wrong.But that shouldn't bother you,love and care for your girl friend.
2007-01-16 17:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Chiomy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has a real confidence crisis. Either that or she's just modest and she likes being complimented but doesn't know how to respond.
Maybe you should just stop worrying when she say's she's not and just accept that this is how she is. Also, compliment her on her choice of clothing or something like that rather than her own looks, she might find this easier to deal with.
Good luck, women are difficult creatures to understand :-)
2007-01-16 16:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by kpk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her lots of genuine compliments as often as is appropriate - if you think she looks nice or has done something nice, say so! The more you tell her she looks good and is good, the more she will believe it hopefully. But don't say something for the heck of it - say it when you really mean it as it's genuine.
2007-01-16 16:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by xaulleo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take her Hand and look in her eyes and say something like she beautiful or the flower thing,or something that says shes beautiful
2007-01-16 16:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Antonio R. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for some reason that she may need to talk about,she has low self esteem.Was she bullied at school?or had a bad experience somewhere in the past,that changed the way she See's herself?All you can do is offer her reassurance that she is beautiful to you and that your with her because of that reason.
2007-01-16 16:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so romantic and tell her to get over it, we all cant look like John Merrick
2007-01-16 16:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by OldBigHead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋