My bf is single and gorgeous. But everytime she meets a guy she expects him to sweep her off her feet. It's like she keeps a score of who does what. If he askes her out she asks him out next and if he doesn't return with something she drops him. I'm not saying she doesn't deserve it but she cancels these guys out the first time they mess up and she wonders why she's not married. She is really set in this mind set and I don't know what to tell her when she asks me how come shes not married. Is it better for me not to say anything and help her live out this fantasy of prince charming? Or tell her what I think?
2007-01-16 08:21:48 · 11 answers · asked by fabulosity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be a friend and tell her exactly your "opionions" also just giving suggestions only. Say "Im only making suggestions". You see if you attack her she may get confused so my best suggestion to you as a friend is to share your experience and also let her know that she may need to get a different perspective. If we try things the same way we always get the same results, if we try something different (see it in a new light)we will get a different result. Good Luck!
2007-01-16 08:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by renew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you exactly what is going to happen for her. She is going to fall for and marry the WORST guy possible and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. He will do everything the way she wants it at first, and seem PERFECT to her. He'll be handsome, hold open the car door, bring her flowers, etc etc etc. And right after the wedding ceremony he will treat her like crap, cheat on her, yell at her, maybe slap her around a few times. And she will spend all that time regretting not going for any of those other guys who, while not perfect, were just simply nice guys who would have taken care of her.
And the more you try to tell her who to go for and who NOT to go for, she will get more and more angry at your and at some point your friendships will disintegrate....
sorry, but that's what's going to happen.
2007-01-16 16:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prince Charming is gay. You need to tell her she is not giving any guys a chance. on one hand she shouldn't be keeping score but on the other hand if she cares for a guy she'd be giving too. It would just come natural when it'sthe right guy. And doesn't happen over night.
2007-01-16 16:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say tell her what you think. If she never asked you then I might not tell her. But she obviously knows something is the matter and maybe just can't see it.
2007-01-16 16:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tedo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must realize that no one is perfect and that everyone make mistake. waiting for prince charming is no problem, he will come, as long as she is willing to wait a short or long time
2007-01-16 16:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by andrewjumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what u think.....she should give thr guy a few chances b4 dumping him but truthfully its hard to find someone that you totally click with and normally after the few few dates u can tell weather u want to spend the rest of ur life with them or not....no point in wasting time with them if they are not good enough....i was lucky to find the guy i have....i am totally in love...well good luck to ur friend
2007-01-16 16:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Just Wondering 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time she asks you why she isn't married tell her.
2007-01-16 16:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you or somebody should tell her the facts of life, but be prepared to be dropped like a hot patato.
2007-01-16 16:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've met this girl!!
She's psycho! There is nothing you can do for her. I'm just glad there are other great girls out there that have already had their reality check.
2007-01-16 16:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. BF and She don't mix.
2007-01-16 16:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by Mariko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋