how can you make it more interestin?
2007-01-16 08:17:36 · 16 answers · asked by minifall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not sure how old you are, so forgive me if this is not appropriate. Please don't make this decision lightly. Once made, there is no turning back. You can not undo this decision. Looking back, I wish with all my heart that I had waited until I met my husband. It sounds old fashioned, but believe me, there is value in waiting. I have never heard a woman say that she regretted waiting; I have, however, heard many women wish that they had not become "active" when they did.
It is a wonderful experience ~ but what makes it wonderful is the connection you feel when you are intimate with the person you love, the person who is committed to your highest good, and the person that you have promised to be with for the rest of your life.
That feeling is worth the wait.
And you are worth the wait.
2007-01-16 08:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by CallaLillie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's your first time, you won't need to make it MORE interesting. It will be plenty nuff interesting on it's own.
It may hurt a bit the first time, just make sure your partner is gentle and slow, and uses a lot of lubricant.
As for what it feels like, since you are a virgin, there's nothing you've previously experienced before that you could relate to.
If done right, and you like the person, you will enjoy it greatly, bring you a lot of pleasure, and hopefully make you feel closer to your partner.
Take your time, don't rush yourself, and play safe.
Best of luck to you!
2007-01-16 08:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Denny T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you any way?
If you are under eighteen you are not ready,because sex comes with consequencies and you have to be ready to face thoses as well.
Is the person and you in a long term loving relationship? Is the person healthy? If you get pregnant will it be o.k?
Have you asked yourself all of these questions and answered them?
If not think about it first. If you are of age and have thought about it then good luck,enjoy.
2007-01-16 08:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You appear a bit young.are you sure your ready for this stage in your life? Yes it does hurt the 1st time but I feel you need to read up on this subject or talk to a close adult. There is so much you need to know before you do this. The 1st time should be sooooooo special.
2007-01-16 08:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hii i was with a lady like you years ago too i think you should wait untill the time is right for you and not just with anyone all ladys are diffrent the first time mostly does hurt really depends on each lady at the time , its more interesting for you when you know its the right guy time for you has to be this way because its one thing you never forget so think when is it right for you your heart you tell you but dont give it away wait till your reddy .
2007-01-16 08:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on who you do it with whether or not it hurts. My first time didn't hurt but it wasn't enjoyable either. It took a couple times before i was just like alright sex whooohooo. So if he's gentle it won't be bad, but most guys know that your not going to get off from it so they go to town and take care of their business.
2007-01-16 08:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Angel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a girl or a guy. If your a guy no it doesn't hurt (figures guys get everything easy). If your a girl yea it hurts a little but its not terrible otherwise people wouldn't do it! If your a guy and gay I'd imagine it defintely hurts.
2007-01-16 08:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being active doesn't hurt unless you have problems moving around. being an active person will be good for your body, mind and soul. People that just sit around all day get lazy and there body gets stiff. So stay in shape all your life because it will pay off as you get older...LMAO........now were you referring to SEX when you say ACTIVE.......lmao
2007-01-16 08:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... if you are a girl and the guy takes his time, its like being split a little. If he rushes into it and pushes too hard at first its like being ripped open.
If you're a guy, it feels like masturbating, only without the hand and hotter and wetter.
2007-01-16 08:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by AbnerStinqort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are into the guy because the more lube the first time the better for women, whether you purchase it or your bod makes it naturally.
2007-01-16 08:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋