Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

okay here's the deal. I just had my new baby, and then my boyfriend dumps me! Now thats the 3rd time that has happened. The same thing: "I love you", sex, "Were we safe?", "Yes", get pregnant, "I'll stay with you", delivery room, out comes baby, "I'm sorry this is too much", get dumped. No I'm not a slut or a hoe, or shallow. I'm just stupid enough to believe them. I want a man who say by me with a baby. Boys please be that man!

2007-01-16 08:36:44 · 23 answers · asked by Kristine 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 08:35:44 · 27 answers · asked by dra shelley 3 in Singles & Dating

URGENT!!!

2007-01-16 08:35:34 · 12 answers · asked by basketball 1 in Family

i lost my virginty and i was wondering where it is???? help plz!!

2007-01-16 08:35:26 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't want to offend the lovely people asking me, but I really do not want to go. Please help.

2007-01-16 08:35:11 · 20 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I was at the mall just now and my friends had to leave to get to their class so I decided to stay (big mistake!). Well I was walking toward Pac Sun when this black guy (about 18 - 23 yrs. old) approached me. He's like, "I'm doing a survery and all you have to do is answer questions and you could enter to win some prizes." I'm like, "Okay" and he proceeds to ask me questions. He's like asking questions about relationships and sex, and then he's like, "What do you prefer, circumsized or uncircumsized men? Have you ever seen a circumsized man? Did you like it?" I'm like, "Uhh..." and start walking away. He catches to me and says, "Wait ma'am, he survey's almost done and you'll get money for paricipating. Can I pull down my pants and you take a picture of my penis? I'm circumsized. Can we just go into the bathroom real quick?" I'm like (lying), "Sure.." So we turn around and go left to go down the hall to the restrooms. Well he turns left, down the empty hall first, and I follow. Exce

2007-01-16 08:35:10 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

okay my daddy sayes i don't respect him. but how can i respect some body who just poped back in to my life 3 years ago and shows no change my daddy always spent time with my brother and my step family but he never spent time with me then he have the nevres to say my mother moved away from him not him leavein her but i been in the same house for 12 years now and his old house aint that dang far away then he says he can't raise a gurl well i seen a lot of fathers raise a gurl in to a young lady might be a lil rought but they young ladies now that im bout to be 18 he sayes i don't respect him the little bit i gives him is enough 2 me frankly i think his step childer are the ones who should respect him he see them more than me i aint going to lie im a daddies gurl but hell its easy now that im grown i aint have no daddy so he thinks money puts a smile on my fazce when really i have a hold in my hurt wantin to know what a real father is like maybe im holdin it against him

2007-01-16 08:34:44 · 5 answers · asked by sexy sexy peaches 2 in Family

2007-01-16 08:34:20 · 14 answers · asked by Buff 6 in Marriage & Divorce

see i was and am always the reject kid in skool and got picked on too sometimes everyday in 8th grade. so i know how all those othr kids like me feel...but i've had a few friends in my life (but now skools also a lot better than in a long time)...

so in 7th grade i became friends w/ these 3 ppl and got really close to 1 (in the end they were backstabbers and one of the girls was really mean 2 me)...and there was this othr girl who would try to hang out w/ us and tht wud annoy the hell out of me and more than our other friends

i'd talk **** about her 24/7 and she cud tell i didn't like her..even my other friends were saying i was talkin 2 much..but nywayz one day we decided to make a plan we split up into 2 to see who she wud go w/...we knew she'd be confused for who to follow (she wasn't part of our 'group') (i don't remember who she followed)...tht was the meanest i was to her..i had a attitude w/ her(lyk when ppl think tye're better i didn't though but was snoby 2 her)

2007-01-16 08:34:08 · 12 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Friends

I want to something sweet or buy something for my boyfriend, I what to show that I care , cause we are always busy with work and school , and he's been really streesed lately. And please no rude ideas. Thanks.

2007-01-16 08:33:54 · 23 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

i'm 19 n got a gurlfrend who i'm jus a few months older than.we've been datin for over a year now and i want to spend forever with her.problem is she recently told me she doesn't think we can ever get married cuz we r da same age.her reason is ;girls age faster.i even told her i wanna get married at 25 so she wont have to wait for too long but she still not convinced.i know she loves me very much but is just scared we will have to break up someday....does it really matter that we the same age?...do u think she is right?..please give me ideas to help convince her cuz i'm really convinced..????!!!!

2007-01-16 08:33:22 · 1 answers · asked by lovesexy 2 in Singles & Dating

Even in a start?

2007-01-16 08:33:20 · 5 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello,
My 16 year old neice has been meeting boys on the internet and then meeting them in person... I know she has been talked to about giving out too much personal information but still continues to do it... now I found out she is not just chattin with them she is going out on dates, meeting at the mall with them etc... any advice on what I could do to help? I want her to truly understand that it is dangerous. Her mom is of no help... she actually has her own issues.

2007-01-16 08:32:59 · 22 answers · asked by Tricia P 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay my husband and I have been having some problems. He started using drugs about a month and a half ago. Spent all of our rent plus bill money on it. So I had to cancel my lease and move back in with my mother. While he went to a detox center. He was there for three days. Then he got out and stayed at his moms house for 2 days. Then him and his dad got into it and he started sleeping in his vehicle and that is where he stays now. It is hard to believe him that he is not doing drugs because he shot it up like 10 times a day and then only went to detox for 3 days and now he is living on the streets. How am I supposed to trust him? We have a one year old and I am 5 weeks pregnant. He says he is getting his life together and he just started a new job 2 days ago. Should I believe that he has changed or is he still the same old drug user as he used to be? What should I do with him?

2007-01-16 08:32:36 · 11 answers · asked by lilma85 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you cook for your husband? I face the dilemma of what to cook for him everyday? He doesn't help me out as far as he doesn't tell me what he wants to eat. And I don't work right now, so I feel the pressure to cook, but what?

2007-01-16 08:31:39 · 24 answers · asked by kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that shes stills everybody things what i should do.

2007-01-16 08:31:29 · 8 answers · asked by Miss Olkahoma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-16 08:30:19 · 39 answers · asked by Samantha l 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my bf sooo much but im going bck to my country this april to continue my studies for 4 whole years....i broke up with him but went out again since he told me that he'll wait no matter how long it takes...jus for the sake of not loosing me! he said tht he'll take all the challenges...but he will not loose me! i believe him but i cant help but think that he might change his mind. I dont want to get hurt but shall i take this risk anyways....i mean i do love him very much?

2007-01-16 08:29:24 · 15 answers · asked by gizela_b90 1 in Singles & Dating

Even though my husband has had 2 affairs within the past 3 years. Can I have an affair behind his back and let him really know how I feel? He has told me that we have a open relationship. So does that mean we can both see whomever we want. I'm confused can someone help?

2007-01-16 08:29:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey! I am throwing a birthday party for someone very special (female) who is turning 40 years old. I need some ideas please! The ideas must be appropriate for children also! Thanks for the help!!

2007-01-16 08:29:07 · 4 answers · asked by vittyvittyt 2 in Family

Do Long distance relationship usually last.......

2007-01-16 08:28:56 · 10 answers · asked by simpleguy 1 in Singles & Dating

From your own experiences, do people stay with partners because it is easier to do so (fear of being alone) or because they geniunely love each other?

2007-01-16 08:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is what she wrote:
Tonight the clipped moon reminds me of your toe nails in the carpet. A splinter finding my foot on the edge of leaving. Autumn has given us these dry left overs collecting against the walls.
Out of the house, two blocks further, and the night has swallowed my shadow. The aftertaste of city lights cast me back down to the dead leaves light in the in-between world of not letting go.
There is one last call to beckon me back...The cleft between apartments filled with each windows open offering. Garlic
upon damp sheets tossing, two glasses toasting. How I try so hard to not find you camouflaged in these dark masses, instead
mulishly keep walking away as you stand.Further your squinting eyes to reach me.
what is she telling me here? why is she reaching out to me after she said she will never contact me again

2007-01-16 08:28:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been married 12 years, now she wants a baby.I've got a grand child.Why didn't she have one 10 years ago.What makes a woman want a child this late in life?
She never has had one and now its all I hear.

2007-01-16 08:28:14 · 6 answers · asked by scott_angler 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im i ugly i have big blue eyes and long black eyelashes and im 5'3and im not fat and wear hollister and stuff like that and im blonde.

2007-01-16 08:27:20 · 11 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 08:27:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 08:26:35 · 6 answers · asked by Doug B 2 in Friends

My family is so messed up (not that i'm alone). Lot of family issues. The older i get, the more my parents get on MY nerves about stupid things. I'm 28 and married to a wonderful guy for 6 1/2 years. They like him. But they make assumptions and get their feelings hurt when i say no to them or easily take things the wrong way. Note - everyone in my family live at the most 5/10 miles away from eachother. Including me and my husband. Now we are planning to move to Florida (hooray) And i'm siked I am going to be hundreds of miles away from stupid unescessary family drama. Am i rotten to be happy about this?

2007-01-16 08:26:30 · 15 answers · asked by Danielle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-16 08:25:46 · 15 answers · asked by mel 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been working and living in California for 5 years, and have been separated with my wife for more than 10 years ( I was living in Singapore prior to US). I have been very faithful to my wife and have been sending money to her for all these years. But from what I was told by families and friends, my wife has been in a relationship with another man for many years, and that's also why she refused to come to US and reunite with me. We fight every time I go back to see her. She refused to sleep with me but she does not want to divorce me.

At this point, I am heartbroken and hopeless. I am tied of giving her money endlessly to support her and her lover. I want to get a divorce here in California so I don’t have to go back to my home country, because it would take many years if she does not agree.

What is the easiest and fastest way to get divorce without my wife here and agree to it? Please help me, thanks you very very much.

2007-01-16 08:25:12 · 4 answers · asked by Jack Lee 1 in Marriage & Divorce