We've been married 12 years, now she wants a baby.I've got a grand child.Why didn't she have one 10 years ago.What makes a woman want a child this late in life?
She never has had one and now its all I hear.
2007-01-16 08:28:14 · 6 answers · asked by scott_angler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can understand that she might want a child. She is feeling the natural biological urge to have a baby. However, just because she wants a child doesn't mean that she should pressure you into the idea. Kids are incredibly important, so you would need to be 100% behind the idea as well. It sounds like you have already had kids and are not interested in having more, which I can completely understand. I've got 2 kids who were born in my thirties. As wonderful as they are, I can't even imagine going through all that again in my fifties!
Therefore, I'd suggest that you talk and be understanding with your wife about her desires to have a child, but also be firm that this isn't something that you want at this stage of your life.
2007-01-16 09:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Peter M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's thinking about being alone some day,with no family.Give her the child if she wants one.You both need something to signify that you were together in this world,leave a legacy behind to keep you both alive in memory.
2007-01-17 06:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by cactusjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyones timing is different. With women this is not just a mind thing. If she is feeling that need to have a child it is coming from deep within & it is not something she can just shut off.
2007-01-16 08:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by With My Forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she didn't want the responsibility before but now the clock is about to tick its last tock. Its either now or never.
2007-01-16 08:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wasnt ready to have a baby until now.
2007-01-16 08:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tried asking your wife why now???????????
2007-01-16 08:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋