Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

and has it lived up to all you hoped????

2007-01-16 09:10:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 5 years and I though I thought we were happy he informed me I have been depressed for over a year. .We had lost our house and he had lost a job but then got another one. He has never been good with money and has always liked a expensive lifestyle . He was cought by me leaveing inapropitate comments on myspace . He is also wanting to go out more he works with mostly girls so thats who he mainly hangs out with but he has never really had a lot of guy friends anyway. He is also really into his clothes he always has been but over the past few years it has escalated. We have 2 kids and I love him. He always tells me the same but sometimes it seems like a lot of phony lip service because all of his actions point the other way then I feel more depressed should I just belive he loves me or continue to wonder?

2007-01-16 09:09:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

WE WERE GOING OUT THEN WE TOOK A BRAKE AND HE STARTED TALKEN TO ONE OF MY FRIENDS. AND NOW THEY GO OUT AND I STILL LOV EHIM AND I KNOW HE LOVES ME WE TALK ABOUT US ALL THE TIME. BUT HE DOUSE NOT WAN TO BRAKE UP WITH HER FOR NO RESON. BUT HE HAS NOW CHETTED ON HER WITH ME HIS X. AND NOW I FEAL REALLY BAD ABOUT THIS AND I WANT TO TELL HER SORRY AND I KNOW ME AND HIM WILL ALWAYS BHE FRIENDS BUT SHE DOUSE NOT WANT US TO BE FRIENDS, AND I KNOW HE WONT DO THAT. BUT I STILL LOVE HIM. AND IM SO STUCK.

2007-01-16 09:09:16 · 22 answers · asked by baby gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

she knew i really liked him 2!!!!

2007-01-16 09:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by I'm in love with hbk DX live 1 in Singles & Dating

Many women and men simply say, "no" to certain things. What about you?
Where do you draw the line... and why?

2007-01-16 09:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I personally like Tile better!

2007-01-16 09:07:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was told by a friend that certain people qualify for legal aid - help with lawyer fees, etc. How do I apply for this help? I need help with paying for a divorce.

2007-01-16 09:07:09 · 1 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was going out with a girl 3 years ago and we had a really good time together for a while. After a year of going out we broke and went our seperate ways. She got another boyfriend and I starting going clubing with my friends and hanging out with girls alot . Im 22 years old right now. The girl That I broke up with is now single again and she wants to start hanging out with me again. I don't feel like hanging out with her but sometimes I do.I want to be in a relationship with her! but at the same time I don't. What should I say to her. please please help!!!!

2007-01-16 09:07:06 · 16 answers · asked by Evtm 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been on dates but have find it, so i dicide to wait around for it to come around. is it hopeless. should i wait for it or keep on dating?

2007-01-16 09:06:39 · 14 answers · asked by andrewjumar 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok... to have s** with a guy a week before your wedding? what does it mean?

2007-01-16 09:06:24 · 14 answers · asked by cutie379 2 in Weddings

Was in a beautiful live in relationship with my bf. My family and I loved him and he loved us all back for 3 yrs. I used to travel and buy gifts everytime I got back, sex was amazing and he was my emotional pillar. He is 9 yrs younger to me and since i had the money, i lent him coz his problems were mine. Sacrificed the time I spent with family and friends to be with him. And then it all came crashing down, when he said he wanted to break up. He was cheating on me. He broke my heart and left me 2 months back for a girl, lonely with no one to run to. My trust was broken when i got to know he was having sex with other women, while I was away on work. Hurt, I wanted the money back. He said he was leaving town and will return it when he returns. Truth is he never left. He lied to me,didnt apologize, just said "I owe you money which you will get". Even more hurt, I asked him for EVERYTHING I ever gave to him, back...and he is returning all gifts and money, but its him I love and want back.

2007-01-16 09:06:22 · 11 answers · asked by Fast C 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend bought me something that it supposed to be displayed, but it is really ugly and not my taste at all. Would you still put it in your house?

2007-01-16 09:05:54 · 6 answers · asked by golden2 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay. So I am no stranger to Greg's unending knowledge about men he shares with us women and our glasses of wine in "He's Just Not Into You." I mean, you're talking to the queen of self help books...so I don't understand why I have such a hard time DATING.
Me and this guy totally hit it off. He was handsome and amazing. We hung out a few times and then it got really heated and one thing led to another and yea. So we've talked on the phone a few times since then and emailed back and forth (he lives in a city about a 6 hour drive from here) but he hasn't really mentioned anything about that night a few days ago. Should I flat out tell him to stop humoring me or do you think it's worth giving him a few more chances to say SOMETHING? Or...pretty much, what do I do.
I'm so stuck. He's the...second guy I've been out with since my divorce in August and I have never really had to do this before as passed relationships seem to have just sort of "happened"?

2007-01-16 09:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by iam_simplysara 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 09:05:31 · 15 answers · asked by Mysterious 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

there was a girl that had a crush on me, I called her and wished her happy new Years. i don't have a crush on this girl, but I thought it would be nice. The conversation lasted about 30 seconds. My girlfriend found out and accused me of cheating. I said I was sorry and said that I didn't mean to hurt her. My friend who I have not seen in two years comes into town. The night before he broke up with his lady of 2 years and was pritty bummed. My women got drunk and told him that I cheated on her and poked fun at my manhood,(if you know what I mean). This was also in front of her friends. I was so hurt that I had to go to bed. As I lay in bed she screamed at the top of her lungs how much of a loser I was. I heard everything she said and I left. When I came back I told her if she hated me so much I would leave. this was met by her punching and slapping me, and saying she said it becuase she loved me and wanted to be honest. After I left to show my friend around town. She called her father.

2007-01-16 09:04:38 · 64 answers · asked by Tyler C 4 in Singles & Dating

When i was 9 there was a massive family fall out and i didn't see my half sister at all. I lost my brother and other sister but they have come back to our side of the family since. I am 16 now and My sister has been married and had a baby, I found out 5 months ago that she had breast cancer, i know i should have gone to see her and yes i do feel guilty, but just before christmas she died. My dad knows (it's his daughter) and hes acted like he doesn't care. My boyfriend said "if she cared then she'd have called - we both know that" So i can't talk to him - I'm not sure how to feel i feel guilty but i don't knwo what to do or what i can do - please help

2007-01-16 09:04:13 · 3 answers · asked by red_hot_chili_monkey 1 in Family

ok...

only answer if you love your partner...if there is a female (attractive) in a bikini would you look? what would you think? would you have fantasies about her? if you had the chance would you make a move on her? would you flirt with her? what would you do? would it mean it anything? would you be thinking of your (attractive) partner or forget them? would you cheat on your partner?

what would you do?

2007-01-16 09:03:29 · 12 answers · asked by rach 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 09:03:03 · 3 answers · asked by sandwin85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she borrow money all the time, she work and get child support.
I think she try to get over sometime. he said he don't care what I think. Let him deal with it.

2007-01-16 09:02:36 · 20 answers · asked by msredbonel1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 09:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by Steiner 2 in Singles & Dating

something unique, that hasn't yet been directed

2007-01-16 09:01:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My hubby is coming from Afghanistan and I wanna give him something but i dont know what.

2007-01-16 09:01:06 · 12 answers · asked by pinky3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Divorced 5 months. Was married almost 5 years. We have a young daughter together. He cheated and I kicked him out. He asked for a divorce. I gave it to him. I thought it was the best. It's what he said he wanted. 5 months later he's sorry and doesnt know where we fell apart at.

Me, I am a basket case. I am still totally in love with him. I am sorry for the way I overreacted at times and wish I could go back and do some things differently. He knows this. Accepts it. Wants to have a talk sometime to get everything out.

Problem is: He's still into weed heavily. Skipping around on jobs and not paying his bills, my mom hates him and will disown me if I go back, and I have a boyfriend (serious but not very serious because of the feelings I have for the ex, plus it doesnt feel the same).

I am 25 he is 27. Daughter 5. Am I the only person out there that is still in love with their ex husband or wife that they just divorced. Is there something you can file legally to void divorce?

2007-01-16 09:01:03 · 5 answers · asked by a_dollier 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it kisses and caresses, culmination or the feeling after? Why?

2007-01-16 09:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by atena 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 400 miles away from my girlfriend until she moves here in the summer i am 18 and she is 17 i have her friends and random people online (msn) telling me they have seen her do this with a lad and she likes this lad and this lad and done this and that even her best friend said it to me i told my girlfriend and her best friend said i was lying about it so i went along with it and apologised even though i shouldnt of but it was to keep the peace between my girlfriend and her best friend and my girlfriend assured me she would never cheat she promised me she likes no other lads

why is it so hard and why does it hurt so much?

2007-01-16 09:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

typically only eating 1/2 a meal, or more often just orders an appetizer as the whole meal for themself

... and if it did bother you, why?

2007-01-16 08:59:24 · 22 answers · asked by Saphire Aurora 3 in Singles & Dating

Do they nagged you to death?
Do they give you good sex whenever you wanted?
Are you happy?
Do your wife have problem or health problem?
Weight problem, emotional problem, Neat freak, or
Normal?
Do you ever think about divorcing?

2007-01-16 08:58:48 · 9 answers · asked by Jagger Otto 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, lets say u like a girl, and she has a problem, do u liek listening to her tell u about her problems? or does it bother u so much and u really dont give a **** about what shes going through? liek friendship problems?

2007-01-16 08:58:46 · 13 answers · asked by Daisy! 5 in Friends

Just wonder if it would be hott for a girl to make a guy dress as a girl and be her slave I kindof want to do that to my husband. any ideas?

2007-01-16 08:58:37 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley A 1 in Singles & Dating

i have dated my bf for 4 years, and we haven't done it yet. i love him, and he loves me. but everytime i wear my sexiest lingerie(or just walk around naked) he doesn't want to do it with me. what do i do??

2007-01-16 08:58:19 · 27 answers · asked by maya b 2 in Singles & Dating