WE WERE GOING OUT THEN WE TOOK A BRAKE AND HE STARTED TALKEN TO ONE OF MY FRIENDS. AND NOW THEY GO OUT AND I STILL LOV EHIM AND I KNOW HE LOVES ME WE TALK ABOUT US ALL THE TIME. BUT HE DOUSE NOT WAN TO BRAKE UP WITH HER FOR NO RESON. BUT HE HAS NOW CHETTED ON HER WITH ME HIS X. AND NOW I FEAL REALLY BAD ABOUT THIS AND I WANT TO TELL HER SORRY AND I KNOW ME AND HIM WILL ALWAYS BHE FRIENDS BUT SHE DOUSE NOT WANT US TO BE FRIENDS, AND I KNOW HE WONT DO THAT. BUT I STILL LOVE HIM. AND IM SO STUCK.
2007-01-16 09:09:16 · 22 answers · asked by baby gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all why are you calling this girl your friend! You are stuck ! Stuck on stupid! Baby girl wake up and smell the coffee. You were dating this guy before your friend was, evidently he was interested in her before you and he used you to get to her. Men come and go and so do friends but your esteem and respect comes first. You have let this man bring down your self esteem that you are questioning yourself about what you did wrong. Walk outside yourself and stand your ground. Don't let him have his cake and eat it to. Always remember if you let your weakness show there is someone always there to make you weaker. If you don't have respect for yourself how do you expect someone to respect you when you let it show.
2007-01-16 09:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by doodie315 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby Gurl, you need to remove yourself from this situation before things get worse and you hurt yourself even more. You have to make a choice of what you want to do. It does not sound like he's being faithful to either of you. I'm not saying that this is completely his fault because it looks like you played a part too by continuing a ''secret relationship'' with him knowing he was seeing some else. It's just unfortunate that it happens to be one of your friends. I'm wondering if he was entertaining the idea of seeing your friend while you and him were together and that's why you two took a break. It just sounds fishy that's all. Almost like he was up to something all along. Someone is going to end up getting hurt real bad if you both keep up this charade. I know you love him but sometimes you have to let go. Maybe you can still remain friends but don't cross that barrier, you're only hurting yourself in the end. He probably has a huge grin on his face playing both of you. I'm sure he's not the only guy who's attracted to you. Give someone else a chance who will respect you and your friends too.
2007-01-16 17:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be independant and strong, before you can be in a relationship that's not full of ups and downs. You expect too much from your friend. Back off, have fun, and invite him into it if you want, but don't give him this power over you. Be your own woman. Then you won't scare him off by being so needy.
2007-01-16 17:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hal H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you need to do is stopp callin that chic your friend cuz friends dont do that to each other. If you really luv him thats good i can understand it takes alot to get ova someone. if he cant brake up with his girl, then he dont luv you as much as you think he does. if he can take a brake with you, and cant take a brake with her seems like you should quit him instead of taken a brake !!!
2007-01-16 17:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by MisSunDerSt0od 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back up out of that situation! Sounds like he is just going through you and your friend. You feel stuck because you want to feel stuck.
2007-01-16 17:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love hurt because u make him hur u...the guy just want to have too chick and u play right into is hand....he is just playing u guys..i am a guy and i know.....he probably love you for your body and love her for her mind ha ha...but there is still hope. start dating some one else and he will get jealous and leave her and chase after you.
2007-01-16 17:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by andrewjumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will love other people and get hurt again unitl you find the right person who will love you and not hurt you. That is when you know you have found true love. True Love does not hurt.
2007-01-16 17:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude.. Life's a biatch... Crap happens; and you shouldn't have pursued him like that, you know, enough to make him cheat on her, even if you do LOVE him. I think you should talk to her, and honey... there are plenty other guys out there. Don't loose your friendship over him...
: )
2007-01-16 17:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sammie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry - you need to move on. Your ex is cheating on his current gf with you. Do you think he would be faithful to you if you guys got together?
Forget him! Move on!
2007-01-16 17:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because the break up is rarely mutual.
2007-01-16 17:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Created A Madman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋