Okay. So I am no stranger to Greg's unending knowledge about men he shares with us women and our glasses of wine in "He's Just Not Into You." I mean, you're talking to the queen of self help books...so I don't understand why I have such a hard time DATING.
Me and this guy totally hit it off. He was handsome and amazing. We hung out a few times and then it got really heated and one thing led to another and yea. So we've talked on the phone a few times since then and emailed back and forth (he lives in a city about a 6 hour drive from here) but he hasn't really mentioned anything about that night a few days ago. Should I flat out tell him to stop humoring me or do you think it's worth giving him a few more chances to say SOMETHING? Or...pretty much, what do I do.
I'm so stuck. He's the...second guy I've been out with since my divorce in August and I have never really had to do this before as passed relationships seem to have just sort of "happened"?
2007-01-16 09:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by iam_simplysara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totally get that he did not promise to marry me and be father to my chldren and that's not even what I want him to be. I just want to tell him I like him without sounding crazy and driving him away.
2007-01-16 09:10:39 · update #1
HOW do I tell him?
2007-01-16 09:34:10 · update #2
Be honest with him. Honesty is always the best policy!
'-)
2007-01-16 09:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you say something and quit playing games? Are you really going to miss a chance with him just because you won't open your mouth to him? He can't be as wonderful as you say he is and that night can't have meant all that much to you if you have to play these kind of school girl games.
Edit: Just tell him. You don't want to sound crazy? You sound crazy not doing anything. And quit reading stupid books for relationship advice.
Edit2: You're the one who has spoken with him and shared emails. That gives you an extreme advantage over any of us. Surely you can explain to him what you've written here in a way that he would take well. Just don't be over dramatic about it and it should be fine.
2007-01-16 17:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh sweetie... I am sooo sorry... you need to worry about you... not the other guys... you need to gain some perspective... maybe you're trying to hard... what were the topics of conversation? the best way is to chill... have fun... don't have an agenda when you meet a guy... have fun... talk about everything and anything... mention your divorce then keep you're mouth shut... ultimately we are creatures of habit... maybe you uttered your husbands name in the heat of passion... without more to go on... I would say your heart is still and open wound and you need to find you before you find someone else
2007-01-16 17:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl its not easy being single today but think you made the mistake of hitting the sack to quickly i know passion was raging but all men are pretty selfish and once they get what they want they fire off leaving us wondering what the hell we did wrong !! i would be straight with him and see what happens like you said you only recently single so plenty of time to meet Mr right but go out with your girlfriends for a few drinks and hopefully Mr right will find you good luck Hun !!!!
2007-01-16 17:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
basically don't be a lamb, lol don't let him lead u on, i know u dont wanna rush it and thats good depending how long its been give him a little time, but if it becomes rediculous then just say where do i stand type of thing good luck x x x
2007-01-16 17:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be honest and maybe ask him about that night and try to get him to say something about that night. I hope that you get things settled. Good luck.
2007-01-16 17:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by Purple Moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋