she borrow money all the time, she work and get child support.
I think she try to get over sometime. he said he don't care what I think. Let him deal with it.
2007-01-16 09:02:36 · 20 answers · asked by msredbonel1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the question is, is it alright with you if he loans her money? If not and you've told him, then it's not right!
2007-01-16 09:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like it is ok with you so it would depend on how she is getting it. does she show up out the blue @ your home @ all hours of night? Does he tell you about it before hand? Is he missing for hours @ a time?
She may be trying to get over but is he allowing it? Are you looking into something that is not there? Does he give you a reason to beleive otherwise? Since kids are involved (do you 2 have any together) it may be legit especially if they are schoool aged. But if they are out of the house or infants- I'd suggest he increase the child support to accomodate his KIDS needs.
2007-01-16 09:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to me. If she works and is getting Child support, she has no reason to be coming to him borrowing money. If she is saying it is for the children, he needs to start asking her what the kids need and then go purchase it for them and keep the receipt. She is doing that to prove to you that she can have him anytime she wants him and you need to step up and tell him that is a no no. Would he like it if you were always giving money to your ex. I don't think so. He would probably flip. She needs to move on and do what she can with what she is getting from him each month. If not you will have a big problem on your hands soon. Take care.
2007-01-16 09:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well are you married to him, if not well you don't have a leg to stand on in telling him what he does with his money. And if you keep picking at him like that maybe he won't be your man for very long. But if your married to him then you can talk to him about the money problem. But without a ring on your finger hey if he doesn't like it one day he might just kick you to teh curb, so be carefull
2007-01-16 09:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately - if they have children together - you as his girlfriend have no right to even comment on him giving her money - that's between those two. If he is already paying her child support and she works, I would tend to agree with you - however, it is his business and not yours. If it becomes a problem you will just have to break up with him and tell him that is why - and that his problems cannot become yours - so as he said he can deal with it - you shouldn't have to.
2007-01-16 09:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh uh. This has too many built in issues and problems, They are his problems. But you need to respect and hear each others feelings and not insult each other in your own relations.
If things are solid between you otherwise, stay out of the things between him and them. If you cant do that, you don't belong in this kind of set-up. If make no diff whether you are right or wrong. Its not yours.
2007-01-16 09:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still likes her and feel a responsibiltiy, as long as the two of you aren't married it's his buisness, child support isn't the only thing he should pay for.
2007-01-16 09:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex has borrowed money from me. As I have from her . as long as its paid back whats the harm.
2007-01-16 09:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think it's okay if she really needs it... Personally, I don't think that borrowing money at all is good.
2007-01-16 09:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat4073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his money he should be able to do whatever he want's with it. If you have a joint account then that's different. It is both of your money and you have just as much say!
'-)
2007-01-16 09:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋