is it ok... to have s** with a guy a week before your wedding? what does it mean?
2007-01-16 09:06:24 · 14 answers · asked by cutie379 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sex with your Fiance, yes. It means that you are expressing your love and affection for the man who will shortly be your husband.
Sex with anyone else, no. It means that you are a disgusting cheater if you do.
2007-01-16 10:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "a guy" do you mean someone besides the person you're marrying? Yeah, there's something wrong with that...you're immature and certainly not ready to be married. Call off the wedding. Get some pre-marital counseling and decide if this is the person you want to be DEDICATED - body AND spirit - for the rest of your life or walk away.
2007-01-16 17:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's been done before.
But if you waited up until a week before, I would think you would want to wait just a few more days.
All it really means, is that the wedding night might not be quite as special. On the other hand, you might be more comfortable with each other.
2007-01-16 17:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if it is the guy you are going to marry in a week. Otherwise, I would really think long and hard if I really wanted the wedding.
2007-01-16 17:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With "a guy"? Which guy - some random guy? No, it's not ok. With your fiancé? Of course it's ok as long as both people feel like it. Why does everything have to "mean" something? Enjoy and have a good time.
2007-01-16 17:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy you are marrying, or another guy?
if it's another guy (based on your past questions who the heck knows) it means you are a tramp, s lu t, sk a nk, wh ore etc.
Scratch all of this you are full of it. Apparently you are married, getting married, in middle school, pregnant, never had a boyfriend, and in love with 3 guys all at the same time. Either you have multiple personality disorder or you are screwing with us.
2007-01-16 17:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would it be wrong if your soon to be husband did the same act of betrayal? Would you be able to trust him again knowing that he slept around on you only a week before marrying you?
People like you are the reason society is falling apart...
2007-01-16 17:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its the guy you're getting married to the why not. If it's the stripper from your bachlorette party then looking and touching is ok but leave the boinking to your maid of honor.
2007-01-16 17:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by RoadRunner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully it was with your fiance- then yes it is fine- if not then NO it is a big No-no. It can show that you may not want to actually get married because you cant get the single way of thinking out of your mind...
If you cheated on your fiance I can tell you it will cause a HUGE rift if he finds out later.... So hopefully you are speaking about messing with your fiance. He is the only one who deserves to go that place anyways....
2007-01-16 17:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had sex with the bride the night befoe the wedding.
2007-01-16 17:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋