Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

There is this woman that I really like who works at the bank that I go to. I truly think that she is really pretty with a beautiful smile. I noticed that she isnt married or enagaged bc there was no ring on her finger at all. I know banktellers are supposed to be nice to all customers. She sometimes works as a teller or at the drive thru window. How can i find out if she is single? and what is the best way of getting her to notice me? Should i write her a note? bc the other teller could be listening to my convo with her if no one is there. What is the best thing thing i should do or how should i ask her out? thanks again.

2007-01-16 09:21:09 · 5 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Weddings

My friend tried to set me and this guy up he liked me and i liked him but neither of us wanted to admit it. Now i like him but i dont know what to do i dont want to be humliated in front of him. what do i do

2007-01-16 09:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by Bobby 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother tries hard to be a good mother but she is very controlling, gives me no space, and is very nozy not to mention stubborn and believes she knows everythin... i'm 19 and I dorm at a college far from home because i'm tired of her but she still finds ways to get to me like she called the cops and reported me missing because I wasn't in my room at 11... When I' home I spend my time defying my mother's rules because they're created just to control me. My grandfather gave me a car and she said that I can't have it yet... she's using it to control me. I do what she says then she might give it to me...

My father is the exact opposite of her and is paying child support out of his as.s for me and my brother because my mothers greedy not to mention the money's to support the child... so why when I need money, doesn't she give it to me? It'll be for food sometimes!
I don't want to upset her.She does treat us well sometimes but shes doing everything wrong.Should I move out? Advice pleze

2007-01-16 09:19:40 · 10 answers · asked by X Anonymous 1 in Family

2007-01-16 09:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my bf of 5yrs because he cheated on me. it's been 8 months since we broke up, and he moved to another town. i told him many times that he should stop contacting me. but he still calls me. I really don't know why. i've already changed my number once. is there any way i can stop him without changing my number??

2007-01-16 09:18:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 09:18:42 · 39 answers · asked by camerashy2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what the hell should i do...my looks are not a problem today...it's just myself holding me back.

2007-01-16 09:18:25 · 3 answers · asked by lala 2 in Singles & Dating

How in the world does she become so wicked when you don't do what she wants???

2007-01-16 09:17:57 · 13 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Singles & Dating

Men that attract you:

Hair type,
Skinny, tall short fat,

2007-01-16 09:17:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think I would consider it cheating if my girl hooked up with another chick, so would it work the same way if I hooked up with a guy??

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2007-01-16 09:17:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always been treated like the black sheep of the family. I never fit in. Now my wife is being treated the same way. My wife and mother work in the same department and have to see each other everyday. My wife comes home in tears because my mom has treated her like crap all day. She's been ignoring my wife and when she's not doing that she's making comments that should be kept to herself. What should I do. I love my wife very much. She's the only one I really care about. I could care less about hurting my family's feelings. Remember I don't really fit in anyways.
HELP ME!!!!!

2007-01-16 09:16:50 · 19 answers · asked by Micheal H 1 in Family

Ok, me and this guy were flirting bad one night,and ALL his attention was on me.He didnt give any girl any attention except for this one girl who had to talk to him first.After he said a few things back,his attention went to me again.And later that night,he did me a favor that a boyfriend would do for his girlfriend,even though we werent going out.He had just gotten out of a really long relationship,and I knew that he was still hurting from it,so I didnt want to rush anything.So I didnt make a move on him,and he didnt make a move on me.Well after that night,I find out that he's dating the girl who was also sorta talking to him that night.So,does it seem like he likes me or likes her?

2007-01-16 09:16:50 · 4 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to tell a longtime friend that I like her and want to date her. I told her a while back that I liked her a whole lot, but I could not act upon that for several reasons. She listened and our friendship grew incredibly closer since. I dropped hints in an email asking asking to talk to her. She replied with hints that she understood. Why would she be eager to hear what I have to say??

2007-01-16 09:16:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last week it was around 11:00 at night and my daughter couldn't fall asleep. So she came downstairs to cuddle and have me give her some cough medicine to soothe her cold. But what she saw was something i promised myself i would be careful about not 'introducing' to my two young daughters. She's 7 years old and knows what was going on. My husband and i were having sex, rubbing and rubbing up against each other, yelping aww, he was licking my t and a, and i was giving him a ********. i sucked he licked we humped we yelped we felt complete sensation. We do this every night and i have never seen my daughter watching us before. I don't know if she's seen us like this, all engrossed, but i'm worried because once i talked to her about how when two people truly love eachother they do stuff like that, and explained the whole thing, she just seemed completely comfortable with it. I'm not going to stop making love with my husband ever, ever, ever, but how do i get my girls to not see us?

2007-01-16 09:16:11 · 19 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Divorce situation. After a long 3 year divorce....judge made a decision. Ex wants to re-trial. Does anyone know if this does ever happen? A re-trial?

2007-01-16 09:16:05 · 3 answers · asked by Mary B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does it mean i'm clingy if i miss my fiancee when he's gone?
does it mean I'm a bad girl friend when i give him his space when he doesn't ask for it? I'm kinna cunfused guys is this what you want or am i being a bad girl friend?

2007-01-16 09:15:56 · 8 answers · asked by Stacy ` B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 09:14:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-16 09:14:08 · 3 answers · asked by Boricua Born 5 in Singles & Dating

Would you have an affair if you met a tall dark handsome man, that paid attention to you , flirted with you, and you were attracted to him, but you were married and/or in a relationship and so was he? Be truthful are u really happy in your current relationship?

2007-01-16 09:13:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have a good time together, not committed yet, but I was thinking about it, but the age difference makes me wonder whether or not it will last.

2007-01-16 09:13:36 · 59 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 09:13:24 · 13 answers · asked by iris b 2 in Weddings

to all the envious women who wants that perfect womans man guess what once he leaves her for you all that did come with him will leave because it takes a strong woman to guide a man yes guide and what you see in him is her.

2007-01-16 09:13:12 · 9 answers · asked by Rhonda B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna get my Gf something special and i dont know what to get her. i need some ideas.

2007-01-16 09:12:59 · 8 answers · asked by Erie94550 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughters friend whom I have never met called me and told me that tonight he is suppose to go to his fathers over night and begged me and cried to please let him stay at our house instead. He said that once he is here he would like to call his mother and let her know that he is ok and where he is. I have met his mother before and she had once told me that she had suspected that her son was being abused by his father. Possibly sexually abused. She also said that he has also been physically abused and threatened by him. She said that he is a very wealthy and powerful business man and every attempt that she has made to get help he has manipulated social workers and authorities to the point where they have discredited her reports and have accused her of lying. Now this young boy is about to show up on my door step and I really dont want to get involved but I also don't want to close the door on him. He just might really need some help. What do I do?

2007-01-16 09:12:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Mine is to be happy again i'm really depressed right now and to be more confident because i lost it when i lost my best friend.

2007-01-16 09:12:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I stayed in room with around 8 other people most of the day to work on all my back work since I had an assortment of other problems that made me a bad attendance record. I suffered more in that room than the overwhelmingly, overcrowded High School. One regular day for me turned into an unexpected surprise. I looked into your eyes on a pic. my mouth dopped and I said unknowingly, “God because of this I’m not going to kill myself.” I was going through nights where all I would do was stare into your eyes and it was the only source of rest until this very day. Things like that can’t be explained. But now I am constantly blown away in disbelief. There’s something so strange about you that it makes me love everything you are. This person doesn't know me but does this seem like proof it's a miracle and it could be a future destiny with us? because of my great suffering I'm taking a chance to ask. I need this girl. she has been my only comfort since I've been in my teens but doesn't know me

2007-01-16 09:11:44 · 17 answers · asked by Serenity M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In other words, do you find that fewer people are willing to watch 2 rather than 1. Do you have less time together, etc?

2007-01-16 09:11:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do u or ur guy prefer shaven or trimmed or neither? Which works better waxin or shavin? Thanks...

2007-01-16 09:11:20 · 10 answers · asked by Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

yestaday waz martin luther king day and i went 2 my boy friend house and then me and him spent some time 2gether and nex thing i noe he trippin now hes mad bcause i didnt want 2 do wat he wanted....
the things he wanted me 2 do waz very sexual and i didnt want 2 do it i called him dat same day and den he never answered i been callin him evasince dis mornin he aint answerin and i dont noe wat 2 do. nex thing i noe he keeps ignorin my calls i can tell............
anywayz hes a good boyfriend and he takes care of me alot
its jus he trippin wat do u think i should do?
is it me or him?

2007-01-16 09:10:15 · 18 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Singles & Dating

i read it in a magazine, basically if a man has cheated or been a sh*t in general you can log his details to warn other woman?

2007-01-16 09:10:07 · 6 answers · asked by doll 2 in Singles & Dating