yestaday waz martin luther king day and i went 2 my boy friend house and then me and him spent some time 2gether and nex thing i noe he trippin now hes mad bcause i didnt want 2 do wat he wanted....
the things he wanted me 2 do waz very sexual and i didnt want 2 do it i called him dat same day and den he never answered i been callin him evasince dis mornin he aint answerin and i dont noe wat 2 do. nex thing i noe he keeps ignorin my calls i can tell............
anywayz hes a good boyfriend and he takes care of me alot
its jus he trippin wat do u think i should do?
is it me or him?
2007-01-16 09:10:15 · 18 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clarification would help : how long have you two been dating ? Are you both of the age of consent ? Presuming so, he's miffed because of a lack of sexual activity with you. Leave him be, as it is your body and ultimately your choice. Men (not the immature tadpolings that are the bulk of the male population) accept this and will deal with it. (We generally have at least one hand to address such matters...)
2007-01-16 09:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cookie I am going to try to put this as nice as I possibly can. I know that when you have feelings for someone you can become clouded by those feelings. In your case you seem a little naiive, so I won't hold it against you. Babe, it's him. He doesn't respect you at all. The fact that he asked you to do all that stuff in the first place shows that he didn't respect you. Second, the fact that he had the nerve to get upset with you because you didn't want to do it. Shows that sex is all he wanted you for in the first place. When someone is taking care of you no questions asked, it's only a matter of time before they want something from you. Eventually he's going to answer one of your calls and try to give you the guilt trip. Using all those things that he got for you or did for you against you...making you feel like you have to do what he wants. DO NOT CALL HIM AGAIN. He's no good. IT IS HIM, NOT YOU. A good boyfriend just isn't a guy you date, and he buys you things or gives you money. He has to love and respect you, put your feelings first. Someone who is willing to wait until you're ready because you're more important to him than a night of passion. Someone who treats you like the princess you are instead of a whore.....don't ever let any man buy your affection...because you can never truly love someone like that...and if he loves you he wouldn't want to. With whatever you choose good luck sweetie, and please stay away from him for your own sake.
2007-01-16 17:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was such a good boyfriend he would have answered. Do you really believe that cause you know if you dont then someone else will. But if he got an attitude then lose him if he can't be mature about the situation. Not answering the phone? You try that and let him see ow that feels. You will be okay.
2007-01-16 17:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by TASHA J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never do what he wants.. do what you feel comfortable with. and if he is tripn cuz of that then he isnt the boyfriend you think he is. and he obviously doesnt respect you because if he did he wouldnt be mad and he would answer the phone. its NOT you. its him. you should forget him cuz the next thing youknow is he found someone else todo what he wants and you dont need that. there are alot of guys out there that will respect you. Find one!
Good luck! And dont exept his excuses! theyre bull!
2007-01-16 17:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by teapea102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child dont even play wit dat you dame well know what to do you just wannted to waste 5 points on yahoo, dat is stupid if he is trippin over sex and you said no, let him trip his way to china dont do nothing you dont want to do. if he loved you he would understand your answer, and of course its him.
2007-01-16 17:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jazzy305 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is being a baby and very selfish. if you didn't want to do it then he should have respected your feelings, he had no right to get mad at you. but stop calling him and ignore him for a while, it will drive him nuts. then you guys should talk and discuss what happened.
2007-01-16 17:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by crapicella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is trying to make you do things- sexually- that you aren't ready for, he's NOT a good boyfriend. Regardless of what he does for you, you don't owe him nothing like that. It's him, not you, believe me. And for him to ignore your calls because of it- girl, drop his ***! He's controlling. You don't need to do anything but move on and when he calls you, ignore him! Good luck!
2007-01-16 17:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grl its him if he wanted u 2 do sexual stuff u didnt want 2 it wuz him.So I think u should ask him does he want this relationship to continue cause if he does he cant b gettin mad at u ova stuff lyke dat............
2007-01-16 17:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by *♥MiiSz uNiiQu3♥* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if he trippin. he not respectin you. refuse 2 talk 2 him til he apologize! in person! girl, don put up wit dat treatment eva!
2007-01-16 17:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, did you learn how to write like this in school?
What was the sexual thing? How long have you been together? How did you turn him down?
Sorry.. what be da ting he wanna do 2 u? Is that easier to understand?
2007-01-16 17:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋