my daughter saw me...?

Question

last week it was around 11:00 at night and my daughter couldn't fall asleep. So she came downstairs to cuddle and have me give her some cough medicine to soothe her cold. But what she saw was something i promised myself i would be careful about not 'introducing' to my two young daughters. She's 7 years old and knows what was going on. My husband and i were having sex, rubbing and rubbing up against each other, yelping aww, he was licking my t and a, and i was giving him a ********. i sucked he licked we humped we yelped we felt complete sensation. We do this every night and i have never seen my daughter watching us before. I don't know if she's seen us like this, all engrossed, but i'm worried because once i talked to her about how when two people truly love eachother they do stuff like that, and explained the whole thing, she just seemed completely comfortable with it. I'm not going to stop making love with my husband ever, ever, ever, but how do i get my girls to not see us?

Answer 1

JoJo it is a very true statement that Lenny Bruce made years ago "I'd rather have my children watching two people making love then two people trying to kill each other". This same thing has happened to many people sharing their love. Do not act like it was anything abnormal or dirty and your daughter will probably not think twice about it if you have indeed explained this to her already.

Answer 2

have your daughters go over her mother house 4 a weekend or a sleepover at their friends houses and then u and ur husband should pack some clothes and then go somewher 4 an romantic evening and come back like 2 weeks later so that your daughters wont see yall having sex again in front of them,

Answer 3

Don't you and your husband have your own room in the house, in your story you don't specify if you're in there. If you were, now you know to lock the door. The only thing I would worry about is her getting too curious and wanting to do it way too soon, kids know more than we think they do now days guide her right and PREY

Answer 4

You started something when you didn't teach your kids to knock on your bedroom door. Re-educate them ... put a "knock first" sign on the door but lock it for awhile until you are sure the change in behavior has taken place. BTW ... Congrats on being married, having kids and still "doing it" daily. It has renewed my faith in marriage.

Answer 5

mAKE SURE THE KIDS HAVE A STRICT BEDTIME THAT EVERYONE MUST BE IN BED BY (THE KIDS) AND GIVE THEM ABOUT AN HOUR TO SETTLE AND FALL ASLEEP. tELL THEM IF THEY NEED ANYTHING TO YELL FOR YOU RATHER THAN GET OUT OF BED. THE ONLY THEY SHOULD GET OUT OF BED FOR IS THE BATHROOM. ONCE THE ROUTINE GETS GOING THEN YOU HSOULD HAVE NO INTURRUPTIONS WHEN GETTING DOWN AT NIGHT.

THATS GOOD THAT YOUR DAUGHTER ISN'T FREAKED AND YOU WERE ABLE TO TALK WITH HER LOGICALLY.

Answer 6

do the hanky panky in a room that has a lock and lock the door. hang a hat on the doorknob and tell your children what the hat symbolizes.

Answer 7

Lock the door,

Answer 8

Confine yourself to the bedroom and keep the door closed and teach your daughters to knock before entering.

Answer 9

Put up one of those sheets where you see the shadows like at the hospital.

Answer 10

behind closed doors is eaier said than done... you ssit your daughter down and explain to her that after he goes to bed it is your special time. If she needs something she needs to yell from her bedroom- or devise another method- ringing a bell or something- anything to at least allow you throw a blanket on yourselves before she comes down for a big surprise