Would you have an affair if you met a tall dark handsome man, that paid attention to you , flirted with you, and you were attracted to him, but you were married and/or in a relationship and so was he? Be truthful are u really happy in your current relationship?
2007-01-16 09:13:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I would not have an affair. I am truely happy being married to my hubby, he is my best friend.
2007-01-16 09:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kari R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that I would have an affair with anyone!! My husband is the nicest and kindest person that I have ever met. We have been in love for 34 years!! If married couples spent as much time and effort on their spouse as they do on an affair, they would probably have a very happy marriage. People, married or not, need to be treated with love and respect. Treat each other as you did when you were dating and the marriage will blossom! Think how hard you worked to win that love in the beginning and then work that hard to keep it. Usually, if one person shows love and treats their mate well, they will usually recieve the same treatment. Marriage requires work but it is well worth it and remember you get out of it what you put into it.
2007-01-16 17:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me i have had some guy friends lately that are the nicest people and i find them to be somewhat attractive, but more so their personality and their actions and subtle flirts, but i would never no have an affair since i am married or in a relationship. even if it makes me feel good inside that they act like they care, no way. its not that someone isnt happy in their relationship to feel this way (not unless your thinking about cheating) , just to feel a connection with someone is a nice thing to have.
2007-01-16 17:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i would have an affair if the tall, dark, and handsome man gave me the attention i wasn't getting at home and it would be necessary that i be attracted to him.
no, i'm not really happy in my current relationship
it's a long story, so for those who are gonna judge me and give me a thumbs down, whatever...i'm being real, that's it =)
2007-01-16 17:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I probably wouldn't have even noticed the man. And no, I don't have affairs with everyone I'm attracted to. I really like my husband, and I enjoy his company above all.
2007-01-16 17:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. I have that chance now. I have up until April to say yes or no to this other man. And sometimes when I look at my boyfriend I ask myself can I really do this. And I stop in think how dirty I will feel and I don't want to feel that way. I am not the cheating type.But this other man I knew before and I promise him when he came back to L.A in April we will do it. In fact he called me last night.So were still in touch. My boyfriend now I really do love him and I don't want to cheat on him. He is good to me. But before I meet my boyfriend I promise this tall dark handsome man I would do the do with him. Who knows April is a way away..
2007-01-16 17:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In November I found out that my husband had been cheating on me for 2 weeks and 2 days. I honestly want him to see how much I hurt, but there is no way I could cause him that kind of pain. Affairs just cause too much pain and self-doubt to do that to someone, especially someone you profess to love.
2007-01-16 23:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by themomok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me put it too you this way...I love blonde hair and blues on a man which my husband is. Yes he gets on my nerves just like you are right now as I am typing, so you are no different. I am very happy in my marriage because it is about ups and downs however I am fully taken care of because my husband is rich and does everything for me...can you supply me with the same finances and emotional support as my blonde haired and blue eyed husband???
When I have sex with my blued eyed husband I think of the deep blue sea which drives me crazy and so horny that I want to band him all night long...oh yeah!!!!
Sorry your darkness does not cut it for me:(
2007-01-16 17:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i am not happy with my marriage now. But i don't think i will make relationship with other man. I think no one can be absolutely happy.May be with the new man i will not have the same problem as now but there must be some other problem that I would not know now.So why I will bother to create new problem in my life?I want to be faithful to myself.
2007-01-16 17:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by st0104055 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, there is no way I would cheat. I love my husband and find him very attractive & sexy. He treats me like a princess and shows me tons of attention and is very flirty and playful with me.
Beyond all of that....you have to realize:
Cheating causes very hurt feelings - I hate cheaters. That's the chicken way out of a relationship.
If that guy was willing to cheat WITH me, he most definitely would cheat ON me.
I have more self respect than to portray myself as a homewrecking whore.
2007-01-16 17:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by Riviera_ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not have an affair. I respect my marriage too much. I have a lot to lose and would never jeopordize the wellfare of my family unit by acting in such a selfish manner.
2007-01-16 17:26:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋