There is this woman that I really like who works at the bank that I go to. I truly think that she is really pretty with a beautiful smile. I noticed that she isnt married or enagaged bc there was no ring on her finger at all. I know banktellers are supposed to be nice to all customers. She sometimes works as a teller or at the drive thru window. How can i find out if she is single? and what is the best way of getting her to notice me? Should i write her a note? bc the other teller could be listening to my convo with her if no one is there. What is the best thing thing i should do or how should i ask her out? thanks again.
2007-01-16 09:21:09 · 5 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If this girl is that important to you, risk the embarassment and ask her out. Maybe joke about the bank's policy on tellers dating customers/ etc... Life's too short to sit on this and not take the risk...
2007-01-16 09:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by morlock825 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so easy and cute! It remember me. Be spontaneous! Direct! Like that you want her really hard. Ask her for a coffee or glass of milk if she don't drink coffee in a public area where you can talk. :) Have a smile and don't put too much precion. Just said that you want to talk, and know each other. Still, be yourself.
Have you watch the movie Hitch? Remember the scene in the bar when he go straitgh to the girl, ask for drink and give her 20$. You need to be that confident. It might not work with all women, but it does work!
Exemple:
I'm asking you to go out and have a coffey with me. Would you like to join me?
If she said, sorry I have a boy friend. Reply with : I just want to talk, not to date you. (You know what I mean)
Deal the 1st objection and keep a smile even if she said no. Bc sometime, the 1st no might be a future yes.
Good Luck!
2007-01-16 18:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for a coffee forget about the note , the upfront approach shows that u know what u want
2007-01-16 17:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would write a note, and the next time you go in to conduct business give it to her, and then if everything goes well she will discreetly answer you... good luck..
2007-01-16 17:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by lynnm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her then just go for it, Hey what can you possibly lose
2007-01-16 17:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋