i have dated my bf for 4 years, and we haven't done it yet. i love him, and he loves me. but everytime i wear my sexiest lingerie(or just walk around naked) he doesn't want to do it with me. what do i do??
2007-01-16 08:58:19 · 27 answers · asked by maya b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4 years....4 years,i cant believe that,you walk around naked and in sexy lingerie and he wont make love with you???jeez,all it takes for me is to see her bra strap and im in business...is he gay?is he alive?
2007-01-16 09:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by delboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe ur boyfriend isnt interested in having sex with you, not meaning it as an offense. this is very rare among guys and is actually a good thing. guys who dont want to get physical with u actually is only interested in u and how u are not getting in bed with u so u should appreciate that. and next tiem let him lead u on instead of the other way around!
2007-01-16 09:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard you may be putting him off because a man likes to take the lead and he may be feeling that your more better at it than he is, putting him down as a man can have bad thoughts up on your man hood
2007-01-16 09:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by LIM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to him about this if it bothers you. Four years is a pretty long time to be together without actually "being together" so it is obvious that you both care about each other a lot. Be open and honest and find out why he doesn't give in to your advances, there's got to be a reason.
2007-01-16 09:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by crapicella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you dated exclusively?
Are you still under 18 after 4 years?
would you be each others first?
maybe you are ready and he is not. It is not always a given that males want to have sex constantly...(though honestly I have not met one yet that doesn't.....he may have health problems that prevent him from going there with you- maybe can't get it up or has premature ej.
2007-01-16 09:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a make over, work out keep appearance neat and well groomed, clean , clean, clean smell nice but not overpowering
Get your self some porno dvds and study and learn .
Apply what you learn Work on an enticing strip dance.
some nice music , some good food some good wine.
If all fails you always can get on your knees. this is
a tough one.
2007-01-16 09:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your boy friend is not attracted to you or any other women I think he's probebly gay and is not turned on by you need to find a new man and dump this guy before you end up killing him
2007-01-16 09:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to come over if you have any beer give him enough to make him drunk get him drunk take him 2 your room put on your sexiest lingerie {or get naked} ask him to get naked put him in your bed than you then just do it.
2007-01-16 09:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by volleycrunch 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him what you want! If he doesn't want it, ask him why. If you are not happy with his answer...move on. If you believe he is truthfull with you, respect him and his wishes. Your relationship will be much better off when you both communicate and be honest with each other.
2007-01-16 13:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by donniel608 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill answer after you turn 18
2007-01-16 09:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋