When i was 9 there was a massive family fall out and i didn't see my half sister at all. I lost my brother and other sister but they have come back to our side of the family since. I am 16 now and My sister has been married and had a baby, I found out 5 months ago that she had breast cancer, i know i should have gone to see her and yes i do feel guilty, but just before christmas she died. My dad knows (it's his daughter) and hes acted like he doesn't care. My boyfriend said "if she cared then she'd have called - we both know that" So i can't talk to him - I'm not sure how to feel i feel guilty but i don't knwo what to do or what i can do - please help
2007-01-16 09:04:13 · 3 answers · asked by red_hot_chili_monkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If I were in your shoes, I would Feel awful.
What I would Do is reach out to your sisters' husband and baby and express your regrets and offer to be of any help you can.
2007-01-16 09:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by knitsafghans 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing you can do about your dad and how he feels, but there is a lot that you can do to come to terms with the things that are happening in your life. asking for help is heading in the right direction, but i think if i were you i would go to a grief counselor too.
my sister was murdered, and i ask myself all the time if there was something i could have done that may have prevented this.
she's been gone almost 10 years now. i still miss her, but i don't ask myself the question quite so often anymore.
2007-01-16 09:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do at this point but to go on with your life. If she has already passed. Then make it a point to keep in touch with all of your loved ones so that there is not guilty feeling when one goes on to meet the maker.
GLORY!
2007-01-16 09:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋